08/19/2026
You can learn another technique. You can memorize another protocol. You can go to another training.
All of that is useful.
But eventually, every therapist runs into themselves.
Can you sit with a client who is experiencing enormous emotion without becoming afraid of it yourself? Can you tolerate not knowing what is going to happen next? Can you recognize when your own anxiety is telling you to intervene when the client is exactly where they need to be?
Those things aren't on a script.
When I began practicing EMDR, I had to learn them too. Trusting the process took time. Developing a tolerance for intense emotion took time. Learning to stop thinking and simply wait, watch, and listen took time.
The interesting thing is that the better I became at those things, the less I needed to do.
There will always be another technique to learn.
But some of the most important advanced training happens in the therapist.