08/18/2026
Soooo Kaumari is determined to be original and stand out in her school uniform EVERYDAY!! She said that she wore all black today so that everyone would notice her shoes, heart belt, bracelet, and he big bow. It would all stand out!! I was like ooohhh okay, so that's how you make it work. She picks out her own accessories for school.
Moral of the story: Just because we look the same doesn't mean we cant be different. She has learned that she doesn't have to follow the crowd completely. She wears the accessories that SHE likes and has learned that the key to standing out is confidence. Kaumari is not boastful or proud, she is just confident in her own skin. I value her opinions and have allowed her to find her voice. She is so outgoing, the sweetest little person, and loves hard. Allow your kids to try new things, listen to their opinions, have the tough discussions at their level, don't dismiss questions, practice real life situations, tell them the real reasons, allow them to try, but also allow them to fail.