08/02/2026
Last week, I attributed some lower right abdominal pain to ovulation, adjusting my seatbelt away from that area as I drove home. By the next morning, my trip to the clinic became rushed with a feeling that I needed to throw up, which I did, for 6 straight hours, with little to no breaks between episodes to cancel each of the hourly visits. When the throwing up ended, my right hip/abdomen came alive! I called my friend Lacy at Boise Ultrasound and she scanned me right away. It was appendicitis and I promised Lacy I would go straight to the ER. I had no idea how sick Iād become but my vitals had the nurses skipping me ahead of every patient except the baby in the waiting room. My labs were even worse. The CT confirmed it again. Within the first minute of meeting with the physician, the plan was admission, antibiotics to save me from sepsis, and a surgery it took me almost an entire day to accept moving forward with. In the end, it all went seamlessly and catching it early saved my health in ways I cannot fully comprehend.
I arrived home, both Thursday and Friday lost in a whirlwind, to my release-date book order, written by my lifelong midwife mentor, Vicki Penwell. And this book, Midwifing Mercy, will have served as my companion piece on the flip side of an emergent appendectomy. This surgery widened each incision Iāve ever had, including a mini cesarean scar. I donāt have any tattoos but I now share scars with friends and patients alike.
I cannot begin to say enough praiseworthy things about the nurses who cared for me, especially Anita and Will. Or the sister midwives who popped in with love, treats, meals, flowers, and baby snuggles. Or my Mayo Clinic surgeon and local P*P who have checked in every day. My husband packed my Knox Socks, and everyone commented on them.
The loss of my appendix now marks the 15th organ/structure Iāve lost to endometriosis. Iām grateful for only 6 hours of being sick and clear direction on what needed to happen next. Instead of lamenting, I know to trust. I held it together until the Laborist found out and said she was coming to see me. Thereās no us vs. them, only united birth workers in a maternity care desert, midwifing mercy.