Dr. Wall & Associates

04/24/2026

04/22/2026

A wounded inner child will hold those close to them accountable for abuse committed by prior perpetrators.⁠
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This is done by projecting abusive parents or abuse dynamics onto those close to us, such as our partners or children.⁠
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It mostly goes onto our partners in some of the following examples.⁠
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*Trying to get our partners to be more sensitive to our needs.⁠
*Having big reactions to our partner's problems or quirks.⁠
*Sabotaging, picking fights, or demanding perfection to create distance or superiority.⁠
*Acting out, keeping secrets, or overly protecting our independence.⁠
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The people close to you may have their issues, and you may be with an unsafe or highly dysfunctional partner, but the projection is still there. It's not one or the other.⁠
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Another way to look at this problem is to think of our own parents and why they hurt each other or their children. What were they projecting or punishing the wrong people for their issues?⁠
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Chances are, if you are working on yourself, you might be doing this to much lesser degrees, but the concept is something we all struggle with until we can reparent our inner child around who needs to be truly held accountable for what happened to us.⁠
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The long path to healing revolves around letting people be themselves, seeing who they are, and fully seeing their humanity.⁠
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This can't be done by just trying to shoot for that. We need to check how our inner child views those close to us. What's the narrative about your partner not making that appointment or paying their credit card bill late? Who do they become to your inner child?

04/22/2026

Thank you for the reminders Self-love Rainbow

Okay so "perfect" is doing a little heavy lifting here but these are some things that can make mornings feel better.

04/11/2026

If you’re not feeling concern, anger, or fear right now…
it may be because you don’t have to.

That’s what privilege can do.

But moments like this ask something of all of us—
not just those directly impacted.

Because silence doesn’t stay neutral.
Silence tells a story.
It tells a story about what we’re willing to see…
and what we’re willing to stand for.

04/08/2026

Michell C. Clark

04/08/2026

You are powerful.

The world is on fire and we are always just a mere scroll away from spiralling in to a fear state 🌪️ The Echidna wants us to remember our innate power while we navigate these times 🦔
We have the power to reach towards love every time we feel fearful or lost in uncertainty
We have the power to magnify the ‘simple’ moments that matter the most
We have the power to create ripple effects of hope in a world that desperately needs it
We have the power to embody the world we want to see
❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

I’m on deadline for a project at the moment but this little guy was screaming at me to be drawn late last night! 🦔
I adore creating 🌞

04/07/2026

Boundaries. ❤️

A little reminder for you. 💜

04/02/2026

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1E2pwF4aWU/?mibextid=wwXIfr

APA Statement | The Supreme Court Decision in Chiles v. Salazar https://ow.ly/MIlM50YBKXJ

03/31/2026

I hope to see y’all at Transgender Day of Visibility at the Idaho Capitol today 1 to 5 PM.

700 W Jefferson St, Boise, ID 83720-0001, United States



You are loved!

03/31/2026

We see you. 🏳️‍⚧️❤️‍🩹