Wil la mootk Counseling Center

09/25/2026

09/17/2026

Interested in joining our Circle of Security Parenting™ class?

Classes are held Wednesdays from 5:30 PM to 7:00 PM via Zoom. To receive the Zoom link and get enrolled, please contact:

Alli Willett: 907-225-7825
[email protected]

or

Mindy Trozelle: 907-826-3891
[email protected]

We'd love to have you join us as we explore ways to strengthen connections, better understand children, and build secure, healthy relationships.

09/11/2026

Some of the biggest battles with children start over the smallest things.

“Put your shoes on.”
“No.”
“It’s time for bed.”
“No.”
“Please get dressed.”
“No!”

It can feel like they are arguing about everything. But often, they are really fighting for a bit of control.

The boundary can stay the same, while you give a small choice inside it:

“Shoes first or coat first?”
“Red top or blue top?”
“Do you want to walk to the gate or hold my hand?”
“Teeth first or pyjamas first?”

The task still happens. You are not giving in. You are helping your child feel heard without turning every routine into a standoff.

Keep the choices simple. Only offer options you can genuinely accept. Then pause and give them a moment to decide.

It will not fix every hard moment, and some days will still be messy. But a little choice can lower the temperature for everyone.

FREE USING CHOICES TO REDUCE POWER STRUGGLES WITH CHILDREN

LIKE the photo and comment "CHOICE" and we will send you a message with a link to a free PDF of this resource.

09/08/2026

How to Correct Behavior Without Rejecting the Child.

Discipline should teach, not wound.

A child needs to understand that a poor choice does not make them a bad person. We can correct firmly, hold boundaries, and still protect the connection they depend on.

Ask what happened before assuming. Correct privately when possible. Use consequences that make sense. Let them feel upset without withdrawing love. And when the moment is over, help them repair and try again.

The message should always be clear:

“What you did needs to change, but you are still loved, still safe, and still worthy of connection.” ❤️

09/05/2026

When a child is shouting, throwing things or refusing to listen, it can be hard to know what to do first. This free Connection Before Correction poster offers a simple reminder: help them feel understood before trying to teach, correct or set consequences.

Children and young people often cannot think clearly when big feelings take over. A calm response such as, “I can see you’re really angry. I won’t let you throw toys,” can hold both the feeling and the boundary.

The poster includes everyday examples and practical language to support calmer discipline, emotional regulation and respectful limits at home, school or in care settings. Useful for parents, carers and anyone supporting children with big emotions.

FREE CONNECTION BEFORE CORRECTION: EXPLANATION POSTER FOR PARENTS

LIKE the photo and comment "BEFORE" and we will send you a message with a link to a free PDF of this resource.

09/02/2026

This is happening now!! Come check it out and bring your friends!

The first day of school is a new beginning!

Bring your family and enjoy an evening of fun and memories on 9/1/26!

🎉🥳 *** ALL FREE *** CARNIVAL on TUESDAY 🥳🎉 September 1st!!! The evening of the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL to Celebrate “New Beginnings”.

This is the finale’ of Wil la mootk Counseling Center’s “Building Protective Factors” Community Activities for the summer!!! ❤️

Building Healthy, Strong, Supportive, Positive Connections within our Families and Beautiful Community ❤️

YOU ARE INVITED!!! Hot dogs, Chips, Popcorn, Shaved Ice, Cotton Candy, Pop, Water, GAMES, PRIZES for the KIDS, DOOR PRIZES for the KIDS, and even STUDENT SPORTS PHYSICALS!!!

*** ALL FREE *** Come join the fun!!! Come and help!!! Call 907-886-6911 - We will have something for you to do!!! 🎈

🎉 Fish Pond, Lucky Duck, Ring Toss, Dart Pop, Football Throw, Hoop Shoot, Bouncy House, Lollipop Pull, Cupcake Walk, Face Painting, Photo Booth, Plinko, Dunk Tank, Human Slot Machine, Granny Pants, Guess How Many?, and the MVFD will have a Firetruck and Ambulance for your child(ren) to explore! And MORE!!! 🎉

❤️ Thank you to these Community Resources: Metlakatla Indian Community, Dept of Labor & Education, MVFD, Taquan Hoopers, SE Winds Casino, AISU, Moms on a Mission, Junipers Cookies Cakes & More, AC Market, Martine & Derek, Head Start & Early Head Start for your commitment to participate ❤️

Plus, so far, VOLUNTEERS: Audrey Hudson, George Blandov, Melody Ann and Mary Lou Mandan. Call 886-6911 to get on the VOLUNTEER list!!!

09/01/2026

The first day of school is a new beginning!

Bring your family and enjoy an evening of fun and memories on 9/1/26!

🎉🥳 *** ALL FREE *** CARNIVAL on TUESDAY 🥳🎉 September 1st!!! The evening of the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL to Celebrate “New Beginnings”.

This is the finale’ of Wil la mootk Counseling Center’s “Building Protective Factors” Community Activities for the summer!!! ❤️

Building Healthy, Strong, Supportive, Positive Connections within our Families and Beautiful Community ❤️

YOU ARE INVITED!!! Hot dogs, Chips, Popcorn, Shaved Ice, Cotton Candy, Pop, Water, GAMES, PRIZES for the KIDS, DOOR PRIZES for the KIDS, and even STUDENT SPORTS PHYSICALS!!!

*** ALL FREE *** Come join the fun!!! Come and help!!! Call 907-886-6911 - We will have something for you to do!!! 🎈

🎉 Fish Pond, Lucky Duck, Ring Toss, Dart Pop, Football Throw, Hoop Shoot, Bouncy House, Lollipop Pull, Cupcake Walk, Face Painting, Photo Booth, Plinko, Dunk Tank, Human Slot Machine, Granny Pants, Guess How Many?, and the MVFD will have a Firetruck and Ambulance for your child(ren) to explore! And MORE!!! 🎉

❤️ Thank you to these Community Resources: Metlakatla Indian Community, Dept of Labor & Education, MVFD, Taquan Hoopers, SE Winds Casino, AISU, Moms on a Mission, Junipers Cookies Cakes & More, AC Market, Martine & Derek, Head Start & Early Head Start for your commitment to participate ❤️

Plus, so far, VOLUNTEERS: Audrey Hudson, George Blandov, Melody Ann and Mary Lou Mandan. Call 886-6911 to get on the VOLUNTEER list!!!

08/31/2026

Wil la mootk Counseling Center will be closed September 7th for Labor Day.

We will resume regular appointments on September 8th.

08/30/2026