06/13/2026
In Loving Memory
John T. McLaughlin (“Himself”)
September 23, 1941 - June 11, 2026
John T. McLaughlin, 84, affectionately known as “Himself,” passed away on June 11, 2026, at the age of 84 after a courageous battle with Alzheimer’s disease. Born on September 23, 1941, John grew up in the Eastwood neighborhood of Syracuse, New York, where he attended Catholic schools and graduated from St. John the Evangelist High School. He later earned his degree from Le Moyne College, a milestone he was deeply proud of.
John served his country as an Army Reservist during the Vietnam era, demonstrating the quiet sense of duty and steadiness that would define his life. He went on to build a long and respected career in claims and claims management, known for his fairness, humor, and unwavering work ethic.
A lifelong sports enthusiast, John’s love for baseball and basketball ran deep. He spent many years coaching youth teams—especially those of his sons—sharing not only skills but also lessons in teamwork, perseverance, and joy in the game. He was a devoted Yankees fan and a passionate supporter of Syracuse basketball. “Go Yankees!” and “Go ’Cuse!” were familiar refrains in his home. John was also an avid golfer, a lover of history, and a formidable trivia buff.
John is survived by his beloved wife, Beth McLaughlin; his children Mary Ellen Meckes (Greg), Michael McLaughlin (Stacey), John McLaughlin (Alecia), Lynette Pirong (Bob Hayford), and Randy Perrin (Jordan); and his cherished grandchildren Gage Hayford, Colin, Alana, and Claire McLaughlin, and Maddie Perrin. He is also survived by his brother, Patrick McLaughlin (Noreen), along with many nieces, nephews, and cousins who will remember him with affection.
He was predeceased by his first wife, Diane Alexander McLaughlin, and by his parents, John J. and Catherine (Eileen Sharkey) McLaughlin.
John will be remembered for his humor, his loyalty, his love of family, and the unmistakable spark he brought into every room. His legacy lives on in the countless lives he touched—with kindness, with laughter, and with the unmistakable spirit of “Himself.”
Funeral Services will be celebrated at 5 p.m. on Thursday, June 18, 2026, from Harter Funeral Home, Inc. 9525 S. Main St. (BREWERTON RD.) Brewerton, NY. Interment will be at 11 a.m. on Friday, June 19, 2026 in St. Mary's Cemetery, Dewitt. Relatives and Friends are invited to Calling Hours from 3 - 5 p.m. at the funeral home, on Thursday, prior to the service.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to Hospice CNY and Fingerlakes or The Alzheimer’s association.
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