Allison Davis Maxon, LMFT

Allison Davis Maxon, LMFT Allison is a clinician, advocate, author and educator specializing in Attachment, Trauma & Adoption/

06/11/2026

You have seen the connection in your own kitchen. A morning of sugary cereal and packaged pastries leads to bouncing off walls. A lunch of processed nuggets and fries leads to an afternoon meltdown. You are not imagining it.

Research now confirms what many parents have suspected. The link between ultra processed foods and hyperactivity is real. A longitudinal study published in 2024 followed children from early childhood through adolescence and found that children who consumed more ultra processed foods at age 3 to 4 had significantly higher risks of hyperactivity and inattention symptoms years later as teenagers .

Here is what the numbers show. For every 10% increase in calories coming from ultra processed foods at age 4, the risk of hyperactivity symptoms in adolescence rose by 25% . That is a substantial effect from a dietary shift that has become normal in modern households.

The science behind this connection is layered. Ultra processed foods are often high in refined sugars, artificial dyes, chemical preservatives, and saturated fats while being low in omega 3 fatty acids, fiber, and essential nutrients like iron and B vitamins . A diet lacking these brain building nutrients can impair concentration, memory, and mood regulation.

Omega 3 fatty acids, found in oily fish, are particularly important. Studies show that children with ADHD symptoms tend to have lower levels of DHA and EPA, the key omega 3s that support brain function. A systematic review found that omega 3 supplementation improved overall ADHD symptoms .

The gut brain connection plays a role too. Chronic intake of ultra processed foods disrupts the gut microbiome. That disruption can trigger neuroinflammation, which may influence behavior and attention .

But here is the hopeful part. You do not need a complete kitchen overhaul. Simple swaps make a measurable difference.

Start with breakfast. Swap sugary cereals for oats or whole grain toast with nut butter. The complex carbohydrates provide steady glucose to the brain, improving concentration and memory compared to refined white versions .

Replace processed snacks with whole foods. Hard boiled eggs offer choline, which supports memory function. Pumpkin seeds provide zinc and magnesium. Yogurt offers protein and probiotics. These small changes add up.

Pay attention to iron. Low iron levels are linked to hyperactivity in children. Lean meats, beans, and leafy greens provide this essential mineral .

The most powerful window for these changes is early childhood. Research shows that children are more sensitive to the effects of diet on brain development between ages 3 and 4 than they are at 7 or 8 . That means the choices you make now about what goes on their plate are literally shaping their brain's future capacity for focus and calm.

You do not need to eliminate every treat. You need to shift the balance. More whole foods. Fewer packaged foods. More omega 3s. Less artificial color. More protein at breakfast. Less sugar before school.

The research is clear. Your child's behavior is not random. It is connected to what they ate yesterday, last week, and last year. Change the plate. Change the day.

06/11/2026

For the first time, the 2026 KIDS COUNT® Data Book includes a child well-being score in addition to state rankings. This 0-to-1,000 score makes it easier to see how outcomes for kids are changing over time.

The latest data show a mixed picture across the country. Overall child well-being declined nationally between 2019 and 2024, with education showing the largest decline. At the same time, there are signs of progress: Teen births fell 24%, and the share of children living in high-poverty neighborhoods decreased by 22%.

Learn more in this year’s Data Book: http://aecf.org/databook

06/09/2026

That sentence right there forces you to step entirely outside of your own exhaustion and look back at the house through a completely different pair of eyes.

When the days feel long and the chores are piling up, it is incredibly easy to fixate on the behavior of our kids — labelling their big outbursts, their endless questions, or their restlessness as the problem. We treat their reactions like a storm we have to survive, entirely forgetting that they are simply trying to navigate the climate we are providing.

The honest, uncomfortable truth is that we are simply not fun to be around when we are dysregulated.

Growing up in a home where the adults are always running on empty means living in an environment that constantly feels unpredictable. Our kids don't need us to perform perfectly every day, but they do need to know that the people in charge can hold their own weight.

When we are constantly on edge, snapping at minor inconveniences and radiating tension, the whole house absorbs that undercurrent of panic. Slowing down enough to check our own temperature isn’t a luxury; it’s how we protect the room.

The moment we stop treating our own stress like a secret everyone else has to accommodate, the atmosphere changes. We bring a quiet certainty back to the table, showing them that even when life outside gets incredibly heavy, the home they return to remains steady and warm. ❤️

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06/09/2026
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05/24/2026

“Being a parent can be tough in ways we rarely say out loud.
Sometimes it’s exhaustion. Sometimes guilt. Sometimes trying to stay patient while carrying so much inside.

This is a safe space for honesty, not perfection. ❤️
Complete the sentence below:

‘Being a parent can be tough when…’

You never know who might feel less alone because of your words.”

05/24/2026

One of the most important things children can learn is that mistakes do not make them unworthy of love, connection, respect, or repair. ❤️

None of us are going to parent perfectly and none of us are going to handle every moment perfectly. We are all human!

What matters most is not pretending we never get it wrong; what matters is what happens after.

❤️ Do we pause and reflect?
❤️ Do we take accountability?
❤️ Do we repair?
❤️ Do we regulate ourselves instead of blaming everyone else?
❤️ Do we model growth, humility, emotional awareness, and responsibility?

Children do not need perfect parents. They need parents who are willing to repair, reconnect, apologize when needed, and show them that mistakes can be handled with honesty, compassion, and growth. 🌱

And honestly, those repair moments often become some of the most powerful lessons children carry into their future relationships.

❤️ Healthy relationships are not built on perfection, they’re built on accountability, repair, trust, and connection. ❤️

05/21/2026

It really helps calm my thoughts and keep me in the present moment. ♥️ ~ Nanea

05/21/2026

May marks the beginning of Foster Care Awareness Month, and there are around 331,000+ kids in foster care, with around 70,000 of those waiting for an adoptive family in the United States. 🚨

This means that adoption is their only path to a permanent family.

What can you do?
➡️ consider fostering
➡️ donate to our organization
➡️ share our posts on social media

This Foster Care Awareness Month, we invite you to be part of the solution. Whether you foster, adopt, support a family, advocate, or give, you can help change a child’s story.

Because every child deserves belonging. 💙

🔗 Learn more about FCAM: https://americaskidsbelong.org/blog/foster-care-awareness-month-why-it-matters-and-how-you-can-make-a-difference/

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