04/24/2026
Child Abuse Prevention & Awarenessâ From a Therapist & a Mother
I am writing this not only as a therapist, but as a mother.
My daughter experienced grooming and abuse by someone we knew. Someone close to home. The reality many donât want to face is this: itâs often the person you trust. The one you least expect.
I am my daughterâs advocate. I am her voice when itâs hard for her to use hers. And today, I am asking you to pause and check on the children in your life.
Children do not lie about abuse. Most children struggle to say anything at all. Disclosure is one of the hardest things a child will ever do. So when a child speaks, your response matters.
To clinicians, educators, caregivers, and adults: this is where prevention and protection begin.
When a child tells you they are being hurt:
⢠Stay calm. Your reaction sets the tone
⢠Believe them. Do not question or minimize
⢠Listen more than you speak
⢠Validate them. âIâm glad you told me. This is not your fault.â
⢠Do not investigate. Leave that to trained professionals
⢠Ensure immediate safety
⢠Report it. This is not optional
⢠Document objectively using the childâs words
⢠Provide support through trauma-informed care
⢠Follow up. Healing takes time and consistency
Your first response can either protect a child or silence them.
This post is dedicated to our field. To doing better. To being vigilant.
And most importantly, in honor of my daughter
a survivor, a fighter, and the reason I will always advocate for children who need a voice.
Please check on your children.
Please listen closely.
Please believe them.
