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A little beauty from the lake this summer. 🌈Heading into Labor Day weekend with a reminder to slow down, look around, an...
09/05/2026

A little beauty from the lake this summer. 🌈

Heading into Labor Day weekend with a reminder to slow down, look around, and leave room for the moments that don’t need to accomplish anything at all. Even in the trying, we can stay present and connected. 🦋

Wishing you a beautiful long weekend. 🤍

We are so accustomed to measuring our days by what we accomplish.What did I finish?What did I solve?What still needs my ...
09/04/2026

We are so accustomed to measuring our days by what we accomplish.

What did I finish?

What did I solve?

What still needs my attention?

Even our time with the people we love can quietly become something we evaluate.

Did we have a meaningful conversation?

Did I ask the right questions?

Did we make the most of our time together?

But not every meaningful moment needs an outcome.

Sometimes we sit a little longer.

We laugh about something completely unimportant.

We take the long way home.

We watch the sunset.

We spend time with someone we love and nothing particularly significant happens.

And yet, somehow, we leave a little more restored than we were before.

Maybe that’s because restoration doesn’t always come from what a moment produces.

Sometimes it comes from allowing ourselves to simply be present inside of it.

**Not every meaningful moment needs something to show for it.**
✨As we head into a long weekend, perhaps we can leave a little room for the moments that accomplish absolutely nothing.

They may be doing more for us than we realize.

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09/02/2026

We spend a lot of our days asking ourselves what needs to happen next.

The next appointment.

The next pickup.

The next email.

The next meal.

The next person who needs something from us.

And when we live in that rhythm for long enough, it can become easy to move through our days without really noticing what is happening inside of us.

That’s why a simple question can be so powerful:

**“What do I notice about myself right now?”**

Maybe you notice tension in your body.

Maybe you notice that you’re tired, distracted, hungry, frustrated, or carrying more than you realized.

Maybe you notice something good.

I feel connected.

I’m enjoying this.

I’m actually okay right now.

Then try one more thing:

**Name it.**

We don’t have to judge what we notice.

We don’t have to immediately change it.

And we don’t have to turn it into another problem to solve.

✨Sometimes simply noticing and naming our experience helps us become more present to ourselves within it.

**Awareness can come before action.**

And perhaps returning to ourselves begins there:

🙌 Notice it. Name it. Give yourself a moment before deciding what comes next.

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09/01/2026

Sometimes we finally slow down long enough to notice something about ourselves…

and then immediately ask:

**“Okay, what do I need to do about it?”**

We notice we're tired, so we start figuring out how to fix our sleep.

We notice we're overwhelmed, so we start reorganizing the schedule.

We notice we're carrying some worry, so we begin trying to solve the thing we're worried about.

Even self-awareness can quietly become another task.

But noticing doesn't always require an immediate response.

Sometimes we can simply acknowledge:

I'm tired.

I've been carrying a lot.

This transition has taken more energy than I realized.

I'm actually feeling pretty good today.

And allow that awareness to be enough for the moment.

There will be times when what we notice invites us to make a change, ask for support, set a boundary, or care for ourselves differently.

But we don't have to rush there.

✨ Awareness can come before action.

Maybe part of returning to ourselves is learning that we don't always have to meet what we find there with a plan.

Sometimes we can meet it first with curiosity.

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For the past several weeks, much of our attention has been directed outward.We’ve been watching our children adjust, lea...
08/31/2026

For the past several weeks, much of our attention has been directed outward.

We’ve been watching our children adjust, learning new schedules, remembering what needs to go in the backpack, figuring out carpools, adding practices and activities back to the calendar, and trying to help everyone find their footing.

And somewhere in all that watching and planning, it can become easy to lose sight of ourselves.

Not because we’ve done something wrong.

But because sometimes a season requires us to pay close attention to the people and responsibilities around us.

Eventually, though, it’s worth turning some of that attention inward.

Not to search for what’s wrong.

Not to immediately make something better.

Simply to notice.

**What has this season required of me?

Maybe the answer is more energy than you realized.

Maybe you’ve been carrying some worry.

Maybe your body is asking for more rest.

Maybe you’re craving time with people who restore you.

Or maybe you notice that you’re beginning to feel more grounded in this new rhythm.

Whatever you discover, you don’t have to immediately turn it into another thing to do.

Awareness can come before action.

Sometimes slowing down isn’t about changing the pace of our lives.

**It’s about becoming present enough to notice ourselves within them.**

And perhaps that’s one way we begin to return to ourselves.

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We spend so much time talking about how to support our children through hard things.But supporting them doesn’t mean we ...
08/28/2026

We spend so much time talking about how to support our children through hard things.

But supporting them doesn’t mean we have to have every answer.

And it certainly doesn’t mean we have to do it alone.

Sometimes responding means staying close and giving something more time.

Sometimes it means having another conversation.

Sometimes it means reaching out to a teacher, pediatrician, school counselor, therapist, or someone else who can help us understand what we’re seeing.

And sometimes, **the parent needs support, too.**

Holding the raft was never meant to mean holding everything by yourself.

There is wisdom in knowing when another set of hands may help.

And there is strength in allowing ourselves to receive support while we’re offering it to our children.

Maybe that’s one of the most important things we can model:

**We were never meant to navigate hard things alone.**

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08/28/2026

When our child is struggling, sometimes two nervous systems become activated—not just theirs, but ours.

We notice the hard mornings aren’t getting easier.

We hear, “I don’t want to go,” again.

We see a change in sleep, behavior, appetite, physical complaints, or relationships.

And because we love our child, our own fear response may begin to rise.

Suddenly, there’s an urgency to **know**.

What happened?
What’s wrong?
Who said something?
What do I need to do?

We’re trying to create safety.

But to a child who is already overwhelmed, all of those questions can feel like a hurricane coming toward them.

This is why awareness of our own nervous system matters.

Before we decide what our child needs, sometimes we need to notice what is happening inside of us.

**Am I responding to what I actually know—or to what my fear is predicting?**

That pause doesn’t mean we ignore what we’re seeing.

It helps us become more available to see it clearly.

Sometimes a child needs more time.

Sometimes they need our support as they move through something difficult.

And sometimes the intensity, frequency, duration, or impact of what we’re seeing tells us it’s time to reach out for additional support.

**Supporting a child through discomfort is different from helping a child escape every discomfort.**

Discernment lives somewhere between dismissing the alarm and assuming the whole house is burning down.

We notice.

We stay curious.

We remain emotionally available.

And then, when needed, we respond.

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08/26/2026

When we sense that something is going on with our child, it’s natural to want answers.

We love them. We want to understand. And often, we want to know what happened so we can help.

But sometimes our desire to understand can unintentionally feel like pressure to a child.

Question after question may communicate:

**“I need you to tell me what’s wrong.”**

Curiosity can communicate something different:

**“I’m here. I’m paying attention. And I’m willing to understand this at your pace.”**

That’s why I love beginning with an observation:

**“I’ve noticed mornings have still been feeling pretty hard.”**

We’re not assuming we know why.

We’re simply letting our child know that we’ve noticed.

And then we can open the door:

**“What do you wish I understood about them?”**

Some children will walk right through that door.

Others may need time.

Either way, we can resist the urge to fill every silence or immediately fix what they eventually share.

Because children often communicate more when they experience us as trying to understand their inner world rather than simply trying to get information from them.

**Sometimes the best way to help our children tell us what’s happening isn’t to ask more questions. It’s to create more space for their answers.**

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08/25/2026

One of the questions I hear most often from parents is:

**“How do I know when my child needs more help?”**

There isn’t always one moment when the answer suddenly becomes clear.

That’s why noticing patterns matters.

A stomachache may be a stomachache. A hard morning may simply be a hard morning. A child who wants some extra time alone may simply need some space.

But when we begin to notice changes that are becoming more frequent, more intense, lasting longer, or interfering with everyday life, it’s worth getting curious.

And getting curious doesn’t mean assuming the worst.

It means paying attention to the whole child—their emotions, behavior, relationships, sleep, physical body, and ability to engage in the things that are part of their everyday life.

Sometimes the next step is a conversation with our child.

Sometimes it’s checking in with a teacher or pediatrician.

Sometimes a child may benefit from working with a therapist.

And sometimes, **helping a child begins with supporting the parent.**

Parent coaching can provide a place to step back from the immediacy of the struggle, understand what may be happening underneath it, and become more intentional about how we respond.

**Seeking support doesn’t always mean something is wrong. Sometimes it means we want to understand more clearly.**

And we don’t have to wait until our families are in crisis to do that.

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As children settle into a new school year, some of the bumps we saw in the beginning may already be smoothing out.For ot...
08/24/2026

As children settle into a new school year, some of the bumps we saw in the beginning may already be smoothing out.

For others, the hard still feels hard.

Last week, we talked about giving feelings space before giving them the final say. That still matters.

We don’t want to dismiss a child’s discomfort with, “You’ll be fine.” But we also don’t want one difficult day—or even a difficult beginning—to convince us that something must be wrong.

Instead, we can **notice.**

Is the struggle beginning to ease?

Is it staying about the same?

Is it becoming more intense?

Is it beginning to affect other parts of their life?

Not every struggle requires us to step in and fix it.

But every struggle gives us information.

This week, I want to talk about that space between immediately rescuing our children and simply hoping the struggle goes away.

We can normalize.

We can notice.

We can discern.

And when needed, we can respond.

Because staying emotionally present with our children isn’t only about sitting with what they feel.

**It’s also about noticing when they may need something more from us.**

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