08/08/2026
Somebody has watched you stand up out of your chair and you saw their face change. 🦓
Ambulatory wheelchair user is the actual term, it has been the actual term for a long time, and using a wheelchair some days and walking on others is not a contradiction. It is the entire point of the chair.
Here is what they think they saw. They think they caught you.
Here is what actually happened. 👀 You have a limited supply of standing, and you spend it on purpose. The chair is not a statement that your legs do not work. The chair is what keeps the working legs available for the moment that needs them, the stairs when the lift is broken, the walk in from the parking lot, the last hour of the day when everybody else still has something left.
Same with a cane. Same with a rollator. Same with the days you use one and the days you do not.
I am a PT. Almost thirty years, specializing in hypermobility, EDS, POTS, MCAS and ME/CFS, and I live in a body that does all of this. So here is the clinical part, said plainly. Using an aid on a day you could technically have walked is not cheating. It is pacing. It is the strategy. It is the reason there is a Thursday. 💜
You do not owe anybody a demonstration. Nobody earns a mobility aid by being unable to move, and no one gets to audit your Tuesday.
If somebody in your life has ever given you that look, send them this one. 👇
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