07/15/2026
Siblings at your birth, let’s chat about it 🤍✨
The truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Having older siblings present at the birth of their new baby can be a beautiful, memorable experience—but it’s worth thinking through both the benefits and the challenges before making your decision.
✨ Pros:
• They get to witness the incredible moment their sibling enters the world.
• It can help them feel included and strengthen the family bond from the very beginning.
• Seeing birth unfold naturally can be a positive, empowering experience when they’re prepared for it.
🤍 Things to consider:
• Birth is unpredictable. It can be long, emotional, loud, or require unexpected medical interventions.
• Children may become tired, hungry, overwhelmed, or scared.
• Your partner’s primary role should be supporting you during labor—not juggling childcare.
That’s why midwives typically recommend having a trusted support person whose only job is to care for the children. This could be a grandparent, close friend, or another familiar adult. If your child wants to stay, they have someone to support them. If they need a break, a snack, a nap, or to leave altogether, they can do so without pulling your birth partner away from supporting you.
The goal is for everyone—especially you—to feel safe, supported, and able to stay focused on the birth.
If you’re considering having siblings attend your birth, spend time preparing them with age-appropriate conversations, videos, books, and realistic expectations. A little preparation can make a big difference.
Would you have your older children at your birth? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments! 💛