Cox & Son - New Haven

03/23/2025

Virginia Faye Wilson

Virginia Faye (Roark) Wilson, cherished wife, loving mother, and devoted grandmother, passed away peacefully on March 22, 2025, in Newburgh, Indiana, at the age of 84. Born on January 8, 1941, in Harrisburg, Illinois, to the late Herbert Lee & Sarah Alice (Bean) Roark. Faye was known for her warmth, kindness, and a spirit that touched everyone she met.

Faye was surrounded by love throughout her life, particularly after marrying the love of her life, Wayne Wilson, on July 10, 1961. Their partnership blossomed into a beautiful journey that lasted for 63 wonderful years, filled with shared experiences, laughter, and unwavering support. Together, they created a nurturing environment for their family, highlighting the importance of spending time together and cherishing each memory made.

Faye was a proud mother to her four children: Carl (Jolene) Blazier, Ronnie (Sharon) Wilson, Kevin Wilson, and Sandy (Nathan) Byers. Her legacy continues through her eight grandchildren: Athena Blazier, Levi Blazier, Chris Byers, Brandy Byers, Logan (Cherry) Byers, Joe (Jacklyn) Wilson, Madison Wilson, and Hannah Wilson,4 great grandchildren, MacKenzie, Cade, Cora, and Claire. Each of them carries a piece of her unyielding love and gentle spirit.

A dedicated member of the community, Faye attended the First United Presbyterian Church in New Haven, Illinois, where her faith and compassion inspired others. She was often remembered for her interests in traveling, especially to Cancun, where she enjoyed creating beautiful memories various places she visited.

Faye's family reflects on the unforgettable memories spent with her, valuing the love and joy she brought into their lives. She is also mourned by her sisters, Judy Morris and Pat (Darrell) Clodfelter, who will forever cherish their bond. Virginia now joins her beloved parents, H.L. and Sarah Bean Roark, as well as her brothers, Dale and Bertis Roark & brother-in-law Pat Morris.

As friends and family gather to celebrate Faye's life, they will remember her not just for the years she lived but for the love she spread and the countless ways she touched their hearts. A visitation will be held Wednesday, March 26, 2025, from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Cox & Son Funeral Home in New Haven, Illinois. Funeral service will take place Thursday, March 27,2025 at 1:00 PM at First United Presbyterian Church in New Haven, IL, with interment following at Asbury Cemetery.

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03/17/2025

🍀 Happy St. Patrick’s Day 🍀

Today, we honor the rich traditions of St. Patrick’s Day—a time of remembrance, love, and the enduring bonds that connect us. As the Irish blessing says:
"May the road rise up to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
And the rains fall soft upon your fields,
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand."
May this day bring comfort, cherished memories, and the warmth of loved ones near and far. 💚

03/13/2025

Honoring a loved one who has passed is a deeply personal experience, and there are many meaningful ways to keep their memory alive. Here are some thoughtful ways to honor their life and legacy:

-Plant a tree or garden in their memory.
-Dedicate a bench or plaque in a place they loved.
-Create a memorial website or social media tribute page where friends and family can share stories and photos.
-Host a celebration of life event or annual gathering on their birthday or anniversary.
-Participate in a cause or charity they cared about, such as volunteering or making donations in their name.
-Wear a piece of jewelry with their initials, fingerprint, or birthstone.
-Create a memory book or scrapbook filled with photos, letters, and special moments.
-Carry on a tradition they loved, like a holiday recipe or family game night.
-Write a letter, poem, or song about them.
-Light a candle on special dates in their honor.
-Join or start a support group for those who have lost a loved one.
-Create a scholarship or donation fund in their name.
-Take time to visit their resting place and share memories.

No matter how you choose to honor them, keeping their spirit alive in your heart and actions is the most beautiful tribute.

How do you honor your loved one?

03/07/2025

Attending a funeral is a time to show respect and support. If you're unsure about what to wear, stick to these guidelines:

-Wear dark or muted colors like black, navy, or gray.
Choose modest, formal attire (e.g., suits, dresses, or slacks).

-Avoid bright colors, flashy prints, or casual clothing like jeans or sneakers.

Dressing thoughtfully reflects your care and respect for the occasion.

03/04/2025

Nella Ann (Bowles) Ritcheson

Nella Ann Ritcheson, 66, of New Haven, Illinois passed away peacefully on February 28, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. She was born on December 19, 1958, in Vandalia, Illinois, and from the very beginning, she embodied kindness, selflessness, and unwavering love for those around her.

Nella had a heart for helping others, especially children. She spent her life giving, nurturing, and being a pillar of strength to those who needed her. She believed that family was life’s greatest gift, a connection that endures through all - and she instilled that truth in those she loved. She was a source of unwavering support, a compassionate friend, and a beacon of warmth to all who had the privilege of knowing her. She also had a wonderful sense of humor, always knowing how to bring laughter into a room with her quick wit and playful spirit.

Family was the center of Nella’s world, and she lived each day ensuring her loved ones felt cherished. She is survived by her son, Richard Kyle (Heather Hudson) Ritcheson, and her daughter, Rochelle Ritcheson Wilkerson, who is engaged to Nick Zappa. Her greatest joy in life came from being a grandmother to Adrianna and Xander Wilkerson, who will forever carry her love in their hearts.

She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Richard Ritcheson, with whom she shared a lifetime of love and devotion. She was also reunited in Heaven with her parents, Kelly and Betty Bowles, and her three brothers, Kelly, Darrell, and Danny Bowles.

A celebration of Nella’s life will be held on Saturday, March 15, at Plainview General Baptist Church in Norris City, IL. Visitation will begin at 11:00 AM, followed by the service at 12:00 PM. A potluck meal will be served following the service, and all are welcome to join in fellowship and remembrance.

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02/20/2025

What is Funeral Home Etiquette? Attending a funeral is a moment to honor a loved one and support their family. If you're unsure about the customs, here are some helpful tips:
1. Respect the Atmosphere: Keep voices low, silence your phone, and be mindful of the solemn environment.
2. Arrive on Time: Try to be early or on time to avoid disruptions.
3. Offer Condolences: A simple, heartfelt message like "I'm sorry for your loss" can mean a lot.
4. Dress Appropriately – Wear conservative and respectful attire, typically in dark or neutral colors unless otherwise specified.
5. Give Space to Close Family – Allow grieving family members their privacy and avoid overwhelming them.
6. Offer Support Beyond the Service – A simple call, meal, or gesture after the funeral can mean a lot to the grieving family.

01/31/2025

Losing a loved one is never easy, and planning a funeral during such an emotional time can feel overwhelming. This is why preplanning is such a thoughtful and valuable gift.

By making arrangements in advance, you:
✔️ Relieve your loved ones of difficult decisions.
✔️ Ensure your wishes are clearly known and respected.
✔️ Take the time to make informed, meaningful choices.

📞 We’re here to help. If you’d like to learn more about the advantages of preplanning, please give us a call or visit us anytime. Let’s create peace of mind for you and your family. Give us a call at 1-618-272-3511.