10/27/2026
When your child keeps putting off a task, try asking them what part they’re getting stuck on instead of reminding them to get started.
Sometimes, they know what they need to do but can’t figure out how to begin. Other times, they’re overwhelmed by everything the task involves and don’t know how to break it down.
Ask them, “What’s making this hard to start?”
You might be surprised by the answer. And once you understand where they’re struggling, you can help them work through it rather than having the same argument over and over.
Over time, this helps children recognize their own difficulties and figure out what they need to move forward.