Dr. Julissa

Dr. Julissa Natural Health • Fertility • Sexual Wellness
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08/21/2026

🔥 I CAN’T HAVE A BABY, AM I STILL A WOMAN?
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❓ If you couldn’t have a baby, would you still feel like a complete woman?
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In this heartbreaking *S*x and the City* scene, Charlotte tells the man she loves:

**“I may not be able to give you children.”**

She isn’t only sharing a fertility problem.
**She is handing him the reason she fears he may leave.**
Charlotte says it isn’t hopeless—but it may be difficult. Then she begins preparing herself for rejection:

**“I understand if you…”**
She cannot finish the sentence.

Because somewhere inside her, **“I may have difficulty conceiving”** has become:
**“I’m defective.”**
**“I’m not enough.”**
**“He deserves someone who can give him a family.”**
**“Maybe I’m less of a woman.”**

That is what infertility can do to a woman’s psyche.
It can turn a medical struggle into a verdict on her identity.
But your fertility is not your femininity.
Your uterus is not a report card.

And your ability to become pregnant does not determine whether you deserve love, commitment or a future.

My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility does not begin by labeling a woman as broken.

It begins by asking what may have been missed—and exploring the physical, hormonal, nutritional, emotional and relationship factors surrounding her fertility.

**You are not a failed body. You are a whole woman facing an uncertain journey.**
Tell me below—even if this question is difficult to answer.

*xAndTheCity

08/19/2026

🔥 I WAITED TOO LONG FOR A BABY!
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❓ Which scares you more—having a baby before you’re ready or waiting until it may be too late?
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In this *S*x and the City* scene, Miranda reveals a fear many women carry quietly:

What if I wake up at 43…and I can’t have kids?
For her, 43 is the scary age.
For Carrie, it’s 45.

For another woman, it might be 35, 40—or the birthday when she suddenly realizes that “someday” never became a plan.

Women are often told:

Build your career.
Find the right partner.
Become financially secure.
Wait until you feel completely ready.

But what happens when your life is finally ready—and your fertility has changed?

There is no single birthday when every woman suddenly becomes “too old.” But fertility does decline with age, and that decline generally accelerates during the mid-30s.

That truth should not be used to frighten or shame women.
It should be used to help them make informed choices earlier.

My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility looks beyond age alone. We consider menstrual cycles, ovulation, hormonal health, nutrition, inflammation, stress, sexual health and the health of both partners.

It cannot promise to reverse age—but it can help a woman better understand and support her fertility before fear becomes a crisis.

**You may not want a baby today.**
But if you want one someday, when should “someday” become a real conversation?

Tell me what you think—even if you disagree.

*xAndTheCity

08/17/2026

🔥 STILL NOT PREGNANT— WHAT’S WRONG WITH ME?!
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❓ Have you ever blamed yourself for not getting pregnant—even when you didn’t know why it wasn’t happening?
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In this *S*x and the City* scene, Charlotte’s fear becomes painfully personal.
Trey’s tests came back fine, so she immediately decides:

It’s me. I know it’s me.”

She hears stories about couples who become pregnant effortlessly. Meanwhile, she is tracking everything, trying every position and doing everything she thinks she is supposed to do.

Still—nothing.
Eventually, Charlotte stops asking, **“What might be happening?”**
She starts asking:

What is wrong with me?

Those are not the same question.
Struggling to conceive does not mean you are defective. It does not mean your body has failed. And it does not make you solely responsible.

Fertility involves more than one test, one organ or one partner. Hormonal health, ovulation, menstrual cycles, nutrition, inflammation, stress, sexual health and the health of both partners may all be part of the picture.

My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility does not begin with blame.
It begins by listening, investigating and supporting the whole person—physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

Because you are not the problem!

You are a person who deserves help understanding what may have been overlooked.

*xAndTheCity

08/14/2026

🤔 SUCCESSFUL WOMEN DON’T HAVE BABIES!!
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❓Do you believe women can have a successful career, become mothers and still remain true to themselves?
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In this *S*x and the City* scene, Samantha refuses to feel inadequate because she loves the life she has created.

She describes meeting a woman with a master’s degree in finance who now talks only about her baby.
Carrie pushes back:

**“You don’t have to lose yourself to have a kid.”**

Then Samantha asks her to name the successful, independent mothers who still have exciting careers and lives of their own.

Carrie’s answer?
**Silence.**
The scene is funny, but the fear behind it is real.

Many successful women wonder:
Will motherhood interrupt everything I have built?
Will people stop seeing my accomplishments?
Will my career survive?
Will I still recognize myself?

Some women postpone motherhood not because they don’t want children, but because they fear they will have to sacrifice the woman they worked so hard to become.

**Success and motherhood should not cancel each other out.**

My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility recognizes the whole woman—her physical health, emotional well-being, relationships, ambitions and vision for her future.

Because a woman should be able to prepare for motherhood without apologizing for her success—and become a mother without surrendering her identity.

*xAndTheCity

08/12/2026

😰 EVERYONE IS PREGNANT… EXCEPT ME!
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❓ What is the hardest part: the waiting, the negative tests—or watching everyone else get pregnant first?
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In this *S*x and the City* scene, Charlotte cannot stop thinking about all the women around her getting pregnant.

She has been trying for five months.
**Nothing.**

Her friends tell her not to worry. They promise her it will happen. They even try to make her laugh.

But Charlotte isn’t laughing.
She is thinking about her age, declining fertility statistics and every passing month that makes motherhood feel further away.

When you are trying to conceive, pregnancy can suddenly seem to be everywhere—friends, relatives, coworkers and even strangers.

You can be genuinely happy for them and still feel heartbroken for yourself.
That doesn’t make you jealous or selfish. It makes you human.

My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility recognizes that this journey affects more than the reproductive system. It can affect your identity, emotional health, relationships and trust in your own body.

Age is one part of fertility—but it is not the whole story. Hormonal health, ovulation, nutrition, inflammation, stress, sexual health and the health of both partners may also matter.

Charlotte didn’t need another person telling her, “Don’t worry.”

She needed someone to understand why she was worried—and help her explore what her body might need.

08/10/2026

‼️I AM TOO OLD FOR A BABY!‼️
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QUESTION: Have you ever felt like you had to choose between building your life… and having a baby before it was “too late”?
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A baby shower should feel joyful.
But sometimes it feels like a mirror.

In this *S*x and the City* scene, Charlotte is not just upset about someone else having a baby. She is staring at her own timeline and wondering if she missed her moment.

She says what many women think but rarely admit:

Am I too old now?
Did I wait too long?
Did I choose my career over motherhood?
Did I spend so much time building my life that I forgot to prepare my body?

And this is where the conversation gets real.

For many women, career is not the enemy.
Ambition is not the enemy.
Success is not the enemy.

But sometimes a woman spends years becoming the woman she wanted to be… and then wakes up wondering if the baby she might have wanted is now further away than she expected.

Dr. Julissa does not believe 40 means “too late.”

But she also does not believe women should wait until fear is the only thing guiding the conversation.

A Naturopathic Approach to Fertility asks deeper questions:

What is happening with your hormones?
What is your cycle telling you?
Is stress affecting your body?
Is inflammation getting in the way?
Is your nutrition supporting conception?
Is your sleep helping your hormones recover?
Is your body depleted from years of pushing, producing, performing, and surviving?

Because fertility is not just about age.

It is about the condition of the whole body.

And for the woman who spent years building the career, the independence, the relationship, the lifestyle, and the identity…

The question is not:

**“Why did you wait?”**
The better question is:
**“What does your body need now?”**

You are not a statistic.
You are not a deadline.
You are not “too old” just because someone else’s timeline made you panic.

But you do deserve to understand your fertility before panic makes the decision for you.





08/07/2026

👶 I DON’T WANT A BABY!… RIGHT NOW
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QUESTION: Have you ever said, “I don’t want a baby right now”… but still felt afraid of losing the option someday?
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There is a moment in *S*x and the City* where Carrie admits something many women feel but are afraid to say out loud.

She does not even want to have the baby conversation with herself.

Not because she is careless.
Not because she does not value motherhood.
Not because she is cold or selfish.

But because the question is terrifying:

**If I really wanted a baby, wouldn’t I have tried by now?**

She knows how to chase what she wants.
She wanted to be a writer — she became one.
She wanted the shoes — she found a way.
But a baby is different.

A baby is not just desire.
It is timing.
It is the body.
It is the relationship.
It is age.
It is fear.
It is the right man, the right moment, the right life.

And for so many women, “right now” feels honest.
But underneath that honesty is another fear:

**What if later is not as simple as I thought?**
**What if I wait until I am ready… and then my body is not?**
**What if the choice gets taken away before I ever truly make it?

This is not about pressuring women into motherhood.

It is about preparation.

Dr. Julissa believes fertility should not begin in panic. It should begin with awareness, education, and understanding what your body needs before fear starts making the decisions.

A Naturopathic Approach to Fertility looks at the whole woman — hormones, inflammation, nutrition, stress, sleep, cycle health, emotional blocks, reproductive vitality, and the deeper imbalances that may be affecting the body’s ability to conceive.

Because “not right now” does not have to mean ignoring your fertility.

It can mean:
I am not ready today… but I want to understand my body now.





08/05/2026

🔥I WANT A BABY!! ... “SOMEDAY.”
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QUESTION: Have you ever said you wanted children “someday”—without knowing when someday would be?
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But what happens when **“someday” suddenly feels closer than you expected?**

In this *S*x and the City* scene, Carrie is asked whether she ever wanted children.

Her answer feels familiar:
“I always thought I might. I just haven’t gotten around to it yet.”

Then comes the question that stops her cold:
“When are you planning to do this? How old are you—38?”
Carrie says it felt like she had been shot with a .38.

Because until that moment, motherhood was still a possibility somewhere in her future. She wanted the option—but had never decided when “someday” would begin.

Many women spend years waiting for the right relationship, the right career moment, greater financial security, or simply the feeling of being completely ready.

There is nothing wrong with waiting. But fertility does not always follow the timeline we create for our lives.

That doesn’t mean 38 is “too late.” It means understanding your fertility before you are ready to conceive can help you make more informed choices.

My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility looks beyond age alone. Hormonal health, menstrual cycles, ovarian function, nutrition, inflammation, stress, sexual health, and the health of both partners may all matter.

**You may not want a baby today—but if you want one someday, today is a good time to understand your body.**

*xAndTheCity

08/03/2026

🔥 DO YOU NEED A MIRACLE…TO HAVE A BABY??
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❓When Charlotte finally says, “I’m pregnant,” do you feel joy, hope—or wonder, “When will it be my turn?”
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In this emotional *S*x and the City* scene, Charlotte finally says the words she had longed to say:

I'M PREGNANT!

The herbs? Her connection with Harry—or the combination of everything?

She couldn’t identify one miracle. She only knew that after struggling to conceive, something had changed.

For many women, IVF is not the only possible path. My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility begins by investigating what may be interfering with natural conception—including hormones, ovulation, nutrition, inflammation, stress, sexual health and the health of both partners.

This is not about criticizing IVF or promising that one approach works for everyone. It is about asking an important question:

Before bypassing the body, have we fully explored what the body may need?

Sometimes the “miracle” isn’t one treatment. Sometimes it is finally supporting the whole person—physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
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07/31/2026

🔥 WANT TO GET PREGNANT? STOP LISTENING!!!
Not every voice belongs in your fertility journey.
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❓QUESTION: Has everyone’s advice made you feel more hopeful—or even more overwhelmed?
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In this *S*x and the City* scene, Charlotte is trying to follow a new fertility protocol. But everywhere she turns, someone has another opinion:

Go four times a week.
Take the herbs.
Drink the teas.
Try what worked for my friend.
Listen to another pregnancy success story.

Then Dr. Mao teaches Charlotte something equally important:
**How to block out the noise she does not need to hear.**

When you are struggling to conceive, every opinion can become another doubt. Every pregnancy announcement can trigger comparison. Every unsuccessful month can feel like failure—and eventually, you may begin believing that your body has betrayed you.

My Naturopathic Approach to Fertility does not focus only on herbs, nutrition, hormones and reproductive health.

I work with the whole person—including the mental, emotional and spiritual environment surrounding conception.

This does not mean fertility struggles are “all in your head.” It means your fear, grief, pressure, limiting beliefs and emotional exhaustion deserve care alongside your physical health.

Sometimes the fertility struggle begins in the body—but the suffering spreads into the mind, the relationship and the soul.

You do not need another person’s success story making you question your own journey. You need an approach that listens to your body, investigates the underlying issues and supports you as a whole person.

Before accepting another opinion, ask yourself:

**Is this information supporting me—or adding more fear to my journey?**

*xualHealth

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