08/11/2026
"On February 9th, 2011, I received the extraordinary gift of a living donor kidney through the paired exchange program.
At the time, I was living with stage 5 end-stage renal disease. My brother-in-law, Anthony, wanted to donate his kidney to me, but we were not compatible. He was blood type AB, and I was type O.
Neither of us knew about the National Kidney Registry paired exchange program, but thankfully, the team educated us, and we were able to make an informed decision; Anthony was able to donate to another recipient, allowing me to receive a compatible kidney from another living donor. He helped not only me, but another person.
The photos I am sharing represent some of the most meaningful moments of my journey. These are moments I once feared I might never experience.
- Living with stage 5 kidney disease alongside my sister.
- Recovering after transplant.
- Traveling outside the country for the first time after surgery.
- My donor (my brother-in-law, Anthony) and my nephew, who encouraged his dad to help me!
- Marrying my husband George.
- Watching my own daughter get married.
The NYP/ Weill Cornell Medicine, my transplant surgeon Dr. Sandip Kapur, my transplant nephrologist Dr. Alan Perlman from The Rogosin Institute, and the entire transplant team have meant so much to me. Words cannot fully express my gratitude for their care, encouragement, and everything they have done for me.
More than 15 years later, I continue to celebrate the life made possible through living donation. To those waiting for a transplant, never give up.”
-Elizabeth Gray