Eastside DBT NYC - Eastside Behavioral Health

Eastside DBT NYC - Eastside Behavioral Health Eastside DBT NYC is a private psychotherapy practice in New York City, specializing in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for adults, teens, and families.

🧠 Did You Know?Humans spend a great deal of time predicting how future events will make us feel: “I'll be so much happie...
09/16/2026

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Humans spend a great deal of time predicting how future events will make us feel: “I'll be so much happier when…” or “I don't know how I'll cope if…”

Psychologists Daniel Gilbert and Timothy Wilson have extensively studied this process, known as affective forecasting.

Research suggests that although we can often predict whether something will generally feel positive or negative, we are less accurate at predicting the intensity and duration of those emotional reactions.

One pattern researchers describe is impact bias—our tendency to overestimate how much certain future events will affect our emotional lives.

This can be useful to remember when your mind confidently tells you, “If this happens, I'll feel this way forever.”

Our predictions are powerful. But they're still predictions.

📚 Reference:
Wilson, T. D., & Gilbert, D. T. (2003). Affective forecasting. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 35, 345–411.

Feelings are real—but they aren't always facts.Emotions provide valuable information about what we're experiencing. At t...
09/15/2026

Feelings are real—but they aren't always facts.

Emotions provide valuable information about what we're experiencing. At the same time, they can be influenced by our interpretations, assumptions, previous experiences, and predictions about what might happen next.

DBT's Check the Facts skill encourages us to separate what we are feeling from what we actually know about a situation.

For example, “I feel rejected” describes an emotional experience. “They are rejecting me” is a conclusion—and it may or may not fit the available facts.

The goal isn't to argue with or dismiss the emotion. It's to understand the emotion while also asking: What do I actually know right now?

That small distinction can create more room for an effective response.

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09/15/2026

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Mindfulness Monday 🌿We often move quickly from experiencing an emotion to trying to change it.Mindfulness invites us to ...
09/14/2026

Mindfulness Monday 🌿

We often move quickly from experiencing an emotion to trying to change it.

Mindfulness invites us to do something different: observe first.

Notice what emotion is present. Notice what is happening in your body. Notice the thoughts your mind is producing.

The goal isn't necessarily relaxation or getting rid of an uncomfortable feeling. Mindfulness is the practice of intentionally paying attention to our present experience with less judgment.

Sometimes understanding what is happening comes before deciding what to do about it.

Connection in relationships isn't built only through major conversations or significant gestures.Relationship researcher...
08/26/2026

Connection in relationships isn't built only through major conversations or significant gestures.

Relationship researcher John Gottman has described “bids for connection”—small attempts one person makes to receive attention, interest, affection, or support from another person.

A bid can be obvious, but it can also be remarkably ordinary: sharing something funny, commenting on something outside the window, asking a question, or telling a small story about the day.

The other person can turn toward, away from, or against that bid.

No relationship involves responding perfectly to every attempt at connection. But becoming more aware of these small interactions can help us understand how closeness is built through everyday moments.

Sometimes “Look at this” really means, “Share this moment with me.”

📚 Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work.

Positive experiences happen throughout the day, but we don't always give them much attention.Researchers Bryant and Vero...
08/25/2026

Positive experiences happen throughout the day, but we don't always give them much attention.

Researchers Bryant and Veroff use the term "savoring" to describe our capacity to attend to, appreciate, and enhance positive experiences.

Savoring doesn't require something extraordinary. It might mean noticing the warmth of your morning coffee, staying present during a good conversation, or allowing yourself to enjoy completing a difficult task before immediately moving to the next one.

This is different from forcing positivity or ignoring difficult emotions. Positive and difficult experiences can coexist.

A small experiment for today: when you notice something pleasant, give yourself another 20 seconds before moving on.

📚 Bryant, F. B., & Veroff, J. (2007). Savoring: A New Model of Positive Experience.

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08/20/2026

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When an uncomfortable emotion appears, our first impulse is often to reduce or eliminate it.But emotions can also provid...
08/19/2026

When an uncomfortable emotion appears, our first impulse is often to reduce or eliminate it.

But emotions can also provide information about our experience.

Rather than immediately asking, “How can I stop feeling this?”, it can be useful to ask, “What might I need right now?”

The answer might be rest, connection, clarification, a boundary, reassurance, or something entirely different.

Of course, emotions are not always accurate instructions for what we should do next. But approaching them with curiosity can help us understand what is happening before deciding how we want to respond.

Sometimes emotional regulation begins with understanding—not immediately changing—the emotion.

Why do some people have a surprisingly difficult time accepting compliments?One useful concept from social psychology is...
08/18/2026

Why do some people have a surprisingly difficult time accepting compliments?

One useful concept from social psychology is self-verification theory. Research by William Swann and colleagues suggests that people are motivated to maintain relatively consistent views of themselves and may seek or respond more readily to feedback that confirms those existing self-beliefs.

This can help explain why positive feedback sometimes feels uncomfortable when it conflicts with how we see ourselves.

For example, someone may receive genuine praise and immediately respond, “I just got lucky,” rather than allowing themselves to consider that the compliment might be accurate.

A small experiment: the next time you receive a compliment, notice the urge to minimize or explain it away. You don't necessarily have to believe it immediately—just practice letting the positive information exist.

📚 Swann, W. B., Jr. (1983). Self-verification: Bringing social reality into harmony with the self. In J. Suls & A. G. Greenwald (Eds.), Psychological Perspectives on the Self.

Mindfulness Monday!  Whether it’s a short break, the deep breath you have been chasing, or another comforting activity, ...
08/17/2026

Mindfulness Monday! Whether it’s a short break, the deep breath you have been chasing, or another comforting activity, allow yourself a moment of stillness and peace.

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