10/06/2026
By ten o’clock this morning, her back had already filed its report.
The catch getting out of bed. The twinge bending for the spoon that got away. The careful little turn when someone called her name.
By the time she tells me about it, she can quote every entry. She isn’t complaining — she’s reporting, faithfully, from the only diary her brain keeps.
Here’s the bias built into every one of us: the nervous system writes pain in ink and ease in pencil. It’s old survival equipment. The moment that hurt gets recorded.
The thousand moments that didn’t were never written down at all.
Think about your own morning so far.
You rose from a chair — probably several times. You bent for something. You turned to look when the kettle whistled. You reached for a cup on its shelf.
If your back stayed quiet through most of that, none of it made the record.
And over the years, the lopsided diary becomes the story you believe about your back.
So don’t wait for tonight. Right now, name three movements from the last half hour that went well — the chair you just left, the reach that didn’t pinch, the turn that was just a turn.
You’re not pretending. You’re not ignoring the pain. You’re keeping honest books — and a nervous system shown its own evidence of safety begins, slowly, to believe it.
Your back is not the sum of its worst three moments. This morning already proved it.
This Thursday evening, I’ll show you what to do with that evidence — the five skills that quiet a back down for good.
👉 Free event: The 5 Skills of Healthy Backs — Thursday, October 8 at 7:00 pm ET. Link in bio or comments to save your seat.
Onward & upward, Marek Wyszynski, PT, GCFP Physical Therapy & Feldenkrais® NYC · Member, Hospital for Special Surgery Rehabilitation Network