08/23/2026
What did you love to do when you were a child?
Ballet
Dance
Coloring
Painting
Legos
Playing games
Reading
Comics
Soccer
Softball
Swimming
The beach
Horses. . .
The list is different for each individual. But we each had passions. We dreamed. We played. We believed. . .
As we aged and responsibilities set in, we often lose sight of those hobbies that brought us joy. We lose a little piece of ourself.
In midlife, when we are navigating hormone changes, aging, change and stress, I encourage patients to find that joy again.
When I was young, my room was decorated with horse posters. I read every book I could about horses- Black Stallion at the top of the list. My family didn’t have the means to have a horse, or any know how- but I had friends that allowed me to ride, and I scraped up for a few lessons.
And that love is still inside me.
With two of my best friends from medical school, I traveled to The Hideout lodge in Shell, WY. We rode for 5 days. The terrain was always different. The wranglers were all women- amazing, accomplished. The guests were from all over the world.
And the horses brought the same joy they always did for me.
Friendship filled my cup.
Mother Nature brought a deep peace and awe.
I encourage you to tap into your younger self. Remember the passion. Then book the trip, start the lessons, join the bookclub. . . Ride the horse. It is good for the soul.