06/01/2026
Hi 👋🏼 from your resident therapist with ADHD!
Did you know ADHD is often misdiagnosed as anxiety in women? According to the NIH, about 75% of women with ADHD were misdiagnosed before getting their ADHD diagnoses. I am one of those 75%.
For me, my anxiety often stemmed from what I call the ADHD freeze. Last night I had a lot of laundry to be put away and instead of “just doing it,” my brain got stuck in a loop of how to even begin, leading me to an anxious freeze. After a lifetime of this internal pattern, my brain learned to not trust itself, leading to debilitating, chronic anxiety. So while yes, I do have anxiety, the ROOT problem was 20+ years of undiagnosed ADHD. Through the correct diagnosis, therapy, and yes, medication, I have come a long way in relearning to trust myself, but we are only human. And last night was a very ADHD human moment.
👇Let me know in the comments if you want to learn more about why this is a common misdiagnosis in women (and also in men!)