08/14/2026
Are you feeling BLUE? Here’s what your inner child might be trying to tell you...
Adults are just big kids, carrying the same thought patterns we developed early on. I recently learned about a powerful acronym from children’s cognitive behavioral therapy called BLUE. While it was designed for kids, I’ve found it’s just as relevant for us adults.
B - Blaming yourself
L - Looking for bad news
U - Unhappy guessing
E - Exaggerating
Here’s the deeper truth:
We blame ourselves to feel in control and less helpless.
Those other three? They’re actually your brain trying to keep you safe (even when it’s overreacting!)
In Sacred Psychiatry, I explore how understanding our patterns can help us respond with more compassion to both our adult selves and our inner children.
The next time you experience anxiety, ask yourself: “Am I feeling BLUE?” Your answer might surprise you.
Ready to transform your relationship with anxiety? Grab your copy of Sacred Psychiatry (link in bio) 📚