08/27/2026
Villains, Not Coherence: Why We Can't Sit With Complexity
What do the Lindsay Clancy trial and a viral tradwife satire novel have in common? More than you'd think.
This week, two seemingly unrelated stories β a real courtroom tragedy and a buzzy new book club pick called Yesteryear β surfaced the same uncomfortable truth: we, as a society, have lost our capacity to hold complexity. We want villains. We want monsters. We want a tidy narrative we can consume from a safe emotional distance, complete with hot takes and comment-section verdicts.
But real people β even people who do unthinkable things β are rarely just one thing.
As live-streamed court proceedings and algorithm-fed headlines turn a mother's mental health crisis into entertainment, this post asks a harder question: what if the line between "relatable" and "monstrous" is thinner than we want to admit? What if understanding how someone got somewhere doesn't mean excusing what they did once they arrived?
The piece also digs into Yesteryear, the much-discussed novel about a tradwife influencer who wakes up in 1855 β arguing that its protagonist reads less like satire and more like an accidental case study in clinical narcissism colliding with religious fundamentalism. What happens when a personality structure built on superiority collides with a culture that demands humility and self-erasure? According to this post: something has to break.
Both threads circle the same idea β that our discomfort with nuance isn't just a media problem, it's a us problem. We stop making meaning right at the point where understanding starts to feel like it might implicate us, too. "That could have been me" is a hard sentence to sit with. It's also, this post argues, the only honest one.
This isn't a defense of harm. It's an argument that compassion and consequence aren't opposites β and that the work of seeing others in their full, uncomfortable complexity is ultimately protective, not permissive. It makes us safer with the people we actually live and work alongside, not just safer from headline-grabbing tragedies.
A meditation on postpartum mental health, religious fundamentalism, narcissism, true crime consumption, and why nobody β not Lindsay Clancy, not Natalie from Yesteryear, not you β is "all villain nor all victim."
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