NeuroFoundations

09/02/2026

08/31/2026

A student refuses to start the assignment. Another bolts from the classroom. One becomes aggressive, while another simply puts their head down and stops responding.

They look like very different behaviors, but each can be a sign of emotional dysregulation.

For educators, one of the most valuable questions we can ask is not only, “What behavior am I seeing?” but also, “What might be happening underneath it?”

Sensory overload, anxiety, difficulty with transitions, protective nervous system responses, and temporary loss of access to language or problem-solving can all affect a child's ability to meet an expectation.

Behavior still needs boundaries. But when we understand the nervous system underneath it, we have a much better chance of providing the support a child needs to succeed.

Read more:

Learn the signs of emotional dysregulation in children and how sensory processing, protective reflexes, and the nervous system can affect behavior.

08/28/2026

When your child melts down over the wrong cup, refuses to get dressed, or goes from calm to overwhelmed in seconds, it is easy to wonder, “Is this defiance, or is something else going on?”

Sometimes children are testing boundaries. But sometimes the behavior we see is the end result of a nervous system that is struggling to manage stress, sensory information, movement, or unexpected demands.

My newest article looks at emotional dysregulation in children, the signs parents may be seeing at home, and why understanding what is happening underneath the behavior can change how we respond.

If you have a child who seems to know what to do when calm but cannot access those same skills when overwhelmed, this one is for you.

Read the full article: www.PepplerOT.com/news/2026/8/26/emotional-dysregulation-in-children-defiance-or-overwhelm

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08/26/2026

A somewhat complex topic to understand broken down nicely.

A child who interrupts, argues over whose turn it is, or insists “but everyone knows that!” may not be trying to be difficult.

They may still be learning a big social skill: understanding that other people can think, feel, know and want different things.

It can be hard to imagine that Mum didn’t see what you saw. Or that a friend is upset even when they say “I’m fine”. Or that someone believes the biscuits are still in the cupboard because they didn’t see them being moved.

This is often called theory of mind or perspective taking. It develops over time, and children need lots of calm, real-life practice.

A helpful pause can sound like:
“Hmm, what do you think they know?”
“Can they see what you can see?”
“How might that have felt for them?”
“What could they be thinking right now?”

Tiredness, anxiety, impulsivity, autism, ADHD and language differences can all make social understanding harder in the moment too. Patience matters. So does remembering that behaviour is often communication.

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08/05/2026

One simple shift can change how we support a dysregulated child.

Body first. Connection before correction. Regulation before reasoning.

When the nervous system is in survival mode, lectures, consequences, and "calm down" often miss the part of the brain that's actually in charge. As the nervous system begins to feel safe again, the thinking brain comes back online—and that's when learning, problem solving, and emotional regulation become possible.

Sometimes changing when we teach is just as important as what we teach.

Learn why this approach works in our newest blog.

Read the full article: www.pepplerot.com/news/2026/7/29/why-doesnt-calm-down-work

08/02/2026

When a child is dysregulated, their behavior is often the last thing to change because it's the last thing that started.

A nervous system that doesn't feel safe shifts into survival mode. That's why you might see meltdowns, running away, shutting down, aggression, or tears. These reactions aren't simply choices—they're signs that the brain is focused on protection before problem solving.

Understanding the biology behind these behaviors helps us move from asking, "What's wrong with this child?" to "What does this nervous system need right now?"

If you've ever wondered why traditional behavior strategies don't always work, this week's blog explains what's happening in the brain and body—and what actually helps.

Read more: www.pepplerot.com/news/2026/7/29/why-doesnt-calm-down-work

08/01/2026

This is what I’m talking about…

If you're having a hard time staying regulated when your kid is dysregulated, well then it sounds to me like you are perfectly human.

It is SO hard to stay connected to our owl brain when your kid is totally losing it. It will never not be hard. But it can be easier.

You need exactly what your kids need. Someone to be with you in your dysregulation. Someone who can handle it, who isn't afraid, and who also knows it will end and you'll be OK.

If you're having a hard time finding that, we'd love to welcome you into The Club. Our members will offer you exactly this, and to be honest, it matters more than the hundreds of tools you can find in our resource library.

And of course The Club is the only place I work parents directly- I'd love to meet you!

We are open to new members periodically and the next time is soon, August 4th.

We really can't wait to meet you and help you see that you can survive the dysregulation.

07/30/2026

Have you ever told your child to "calm down" only to watch the situation get worse?

It's frustrating because we naturally want to help. But during moments of overwhelm, your child's nervous system may not be able to access the thinking brain that makes calming strategies possible.

Understanding what's happening beneath the behavior can completely change how we respond—and how our children learn to regulate over time.

Read the newest blog to discover why nervous system regulation comes before emotional regulation, and how connection can become one of your most powerful parenting tools.
www.pepplerot.com/news/2026/7/29/why-doesnt-calm-down-work

07/19/2026

An example of research “proving” what clinicians already know through observation and experience.

You knew this right? But super cool to see it published 🎉

https://www.bodyworkmovementtherapies.com/article/S1360-8592(26)00150-6/abstract