Men's Wisdom Work

Men's Wisdom Work Training men (self-identified) to radically improve their capacity for relational intimacy, consciou

02/11/2026

Most of us talk about wanting change.
Especially men.

Of course, we all want to feel more confident, more decisive, and have better relationships.

But change is really fu***ng hard, and few of us are actually willing to train for it.

So here is the offer, brothers.

Power and Presence
A four-month men’s deep training.

Built on deep practice, psychological safety, accountability, and connection.

Over the past 30 years in men’s relational embodiment work, I have seen what actually creates movement in our lives: consistency, structure, and men willing to stay in the work.

Registration closes Thursday, February 12th.

If you feel the edge and you are ready to enter, link is in the bio.

Power and Presence Men’s TrainingA four-month training focused on increasing emotional capacity, relationship skill, and...
02/07/2026

Power and Presence Men’s Training

A four-month training focused on increasing emotional capacity, relationship skill, and embodied masculine leadership.

The PnP four-month training isn’t a magic pill.
I’m not interested in selling you empty growth promises or shiny objects.

We aren’t the only answer to your challenges.
We are simply one pathway.
We are the one standing right in front of you.

What we offer is a space built on effective methods, empathy, and brotherhood.

We are all looking for a place where our value is seen.

This group is that.

We apply time-tested meditative and nervous system practices, as well as masculine-feminine dynamics wisdom teachings that have been used for generations to ground a man in his own authority.

Then, there is the group of men.
That’s the f**k’n gold.

How else are you training right now?

None of us can afford to keep waiting for a rescue that isn’t coming.
We must use the tools available to us and get to work.

Registration Closes Next Thursday.

The gates for the 2026 cohort close soon.

Come join us and take the path that is being offered.

Kickoff: Week of Feb 16th


There is a gap between the man you deeply want to be and the man you actually show up as every day. Most men try to thin...
01/26/2026

There is a gap between the man you deeply want to be and the man you actually show up as every day. Most men try to think their way across that gap. That is a painful mistake.

We want to know that our presence actually matters, that we are a consequential force in our own lives, rather than just bystanders to our own potential.

You want to be emotionally met and respected in your relationships. You want your work to reflect your brilliance and have real impact.

These aren’t preferences; they are the fundamental drivers of a man’s life.

And yet, the gap remains.

It’s easy to believe you lack something like wisdom, clarity, or confidence. But in The War of Art, Steven Pressfield names what is really happening: Resistance.

Resistance is the procrastination and self-negotiation that appear the moment you move toward something that is real and meaningful.

It doesn’t mean something is wrong with you; it means you are standing at the edge of meaningful change.

The reality is simple: Action is not the result of change. Action is the cause of it. Waiting for “readiness” is just another form of Resistance.

This is why I am offering the Power and Presence men’s four-month training.

This is a structured, disciplined, and compassionate container designed to help you translate intention into action.

This will give you a structured environment to act consistently in ways that lead to greater success in your relationships, work, and daily life.

This is a game changing training for men.
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01/22/2026

If you want a deep, conscious relationship, start with one inside yourself.

The reason I’m showing these images of men in the work is because they’re not hiding from their own s**t anymore.

They’re facing what most run from.

They’re willing to look directly at their fear, their trauma, the beliefs that keep them small.

They’re confronting the ways they’ve been disconnected from their own hearts, cut off from spirit, stuck in the same patterns.

You cannot wait for life to hand you clarity or confidence; you must do the hard work to build it.

Most men avoid intimacy not because they don’t want love, but because they’re still protecting themselves from pain.

From shame they haven’t even fully recognized yet.

We must be willing to overcome the patterns that our parents passed on to us and see how we’ve been avoiding intimacy, protecting our hearts, and staying collapsed because of old shame that’s subconsciously controlling us.

We invite you to join our upcoming

Power and Presence four-month men’s training.

I’ll be sharing my 30+ years of experience to support men to...

Access greater depth and confidence in relationships, intimacy, and life purpose.

A four-month men’s training focused on increasing your emotional capacity, your relational skills, and embodied masculine leadership.



01/15/2026

There are many places that offer potent material for our growth: issues with money, health, purpose, or work. But it’s relationship that offers us our deepest healing.

It’s the ultimate mirror. Not just to our beauty, but to our shadow, our wounds, our issues, and our fears.

It’s incredibly challenging to be in a relationship with someone who can’t see their own stuff. They may even identify as a conscious person, but if they can’t see their own issues, it becomes even harder.

Your work is to stay with yourself. To keep working on your own piece. To own your challenges. To take responsibility for what you bring. That’s the path.

Join us for our upcoming powerful four month men’s training, power and presence Men’s Group
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01/09/2026

Lately, I have been crying more than usual. I lost a dear friend, and the grief has hit me hard in a way that has deeply opened my heart.

It has also had me reflecting on something we rarely talk about. We generally accept that it is okay for men to cry in moments of death or major loss, but outside of those moments, a man’s grief is still often viewed as weakness.

This is not only about men. It is shaped by outdated beliefs held by many people, including some women, about what strength in a man is supposed to look like.

Over the years, I have spoken with many men who have not cried in ten or even twenty years. Recently, I sat with a man who had not cried in two decades while carrying grief for brothers he lost in war. That is not just sadness. That is a heavy emotional burden to hold alone for that long.

So I want to be clear. Expressing sadness, shedding tears, and allowing grief to move through you are natural human responses. They are not signs of weakness.

Honoring your emotional life is healthy, deeply human, and necessary for long-term emotional wellbeing.


01/02/2026

This is a powerful reminder to love our sons.
More than anything else, that is what we pass on.

It’s not the lessons we lecture or the strength we demand.
It’s the love they feel in our full presence.





10/31/2025

Group 7 on IG be
lot of people here on Instagram haven’t even heard about Group 7.
It started over on TikTok, but what I think is cool about it is people were actually slowing down — taking a second to connect.
Not trying to be perfect, not chasing likes, just showing up real.
And honestly, it reminded me that even through a screen, we can still feel each other.

10/17/2025

I kept failing in relationship.
Fear and anxiety ran my life.
I doubted my own value.
Being in space with men doing the work changed everything.

🔥 Fire in the Heart – Men’s Retreat
A weeklong deep dive into the heart of men’s work.
Yelapa, Mexico | 🗓 November 9–15, 2025
This is the most powerful retreat we offer.
It’s a dojo of deep consciousness practice

🔗 Link in bio. Register now and save $500.
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10/11/2025

Men. Men. Men. Brothers.
Do this with your feminine partner so she feels truly heard and understood—so you can move through conflict and repair more quickly.
This is the key. This is the foundation. Practice it and let me know how it goes for you.

Steps:
1. Acknowledge — Repeat back what they’re saying and acknowledge all of it.
2. Empathize — Really try to feel what they’re feeling. Say, “I can imagine that may be difficult.”
3. More Clarity — Ask, “Is there anything else that would be helpful for me to know?”
4. Invite a Request — Ask, “Is there something specific I could do that would help you feel more seen and heard?”

10/09/2025

TODAY THURSDAY OCT 9TH -FREE 20 min- MENS COUNCIL SESSION ON FB Live 12PM PT

Hey brothers, join me and my co-teacher, the brilliant Saul David Raye, tomorrow at 12 PM PST for a free 20–25 minute live men’s conversation on Working With Fear & Contraction in Relationship.
� Saul and I will open space for men to explore how to stay open in the heat — to meet fear not as an enemy, but as a doorway to deeper connection and authentic leadership.
This isn’t a lecture. It’s a live men's council session
�Thursday at 12 PM PST

Theme: Working With Fear & Contraction in Relationship
�Bring your curiosity and your heart.

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