Midwest Anxiety

Midwest Anxiety Mental health is a lifestyle, not a diagnosis. Life has many ups and downs. These challenges will either strengthen or deflate your character.

Each day you are challenged with situations that will either go well, not so well, or somewhere in between. At Midwest Anxiety, we believe that people are not defined by their weaknesses, but rather by their strengths. Life stressors are managed when these strengths are tapped and skills are developed to improve weaknesses. We inspire a purpose driven and meaningful life by focusing on what you ca

n become rather than what you cannot become. Midwest Anxiety is a community based treatment program for anxiety disorders and more generalized problems involving excessive worry, anxiety, and stress reactions. We employ an interactive, action-oriented Cognitive Behavioral (CBT) approach, integrating features of behavioral modification into cognitive restructuring. Unlike traditional office-based psychotherapy, we work with people in “real life” situations in their natural environments (home, school, sporting events, etc). Instead of coming to us in a stuffy office, we come visit you in your world. We believe this “hands on” approach gives us the best opportunity to see your strengths and help you overcome your obstacles in the environments that you live in. We believe that negative emotions and behaviors are learned responses to the environment and can be unlearned. Understanding the environment helps us implement step-by-step Cognitive Behavioral strategies to modify negative patterns as they arise. Whether you struggle with procrastination, obsession or compulsion, fear or phobia, problematic relationships or communication skills, depression or anxiety, Midwest Anxiety can help you make the changes to how you think, feel, and act.

05/25/2026

BS (Before Show) I’ve been sooooo busy that I didn’t even have time to make a 2026 Watermelon SZN video. Please accept my deepest apologies. Hopefully this classic from 2024 will still get you fired up for 2026 .

As the official President of Watermelon SZN, by the powers vested in me, I hereby declare officially open. 🍉

Eat it. Drink it. Bathe in it. Do whatever you do with watermelons.

Watermelon is the fruit of the MWA Summer, and we are officially entering the greatest season of the year.
Happy Watermelon SZN, . 🍉

Sorry to break up your Sunday night Memorial Day weekend fun with a little dose of reality.  WE ARE 13 DAYS AWAY FROM SC...
05/25/2026

Sorry to break up your Sunday night Memorial Day weekend fun with a little dose of reality.

WE ARE 13 DAYS AWAY FROM SCHOOL REFUSAL CAMP FOR PARENTS.

Now I know. You can just “hope” your kid will do better next school year, or you can learn how to actually handle school refusal before the next school year starts. The morning negotiations about going to school. The “I don’t feel good” moments that somehow only happen on school mornings. The fake playing sick to avoid going. The arguing, stress, and not knowing if you’re pushing too hard or not pushing hard enough. If you are a school refusal parent, YOU DEFINITELY KNOW WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT.

We hope you go to camp with us. School Refusal Camp for Parents begins 6/6.

Sign up now at midwestanxiety.com/groups/schoolrefusalcamp

SCHOOL REFUSAL CAMP FOR PARENTS
Saturdays, June 6 – August 2
11:30 AM – 12:30 PM
Every school morning, you wake up hoping, maybe today will be a good day. Maybe today your child will get up, get ready, and go to school without a fight.

But for parents of kids who struggle with school refusal, mornings often feel anything but calm. The entire tone of your day can depend on how your child wakes up. If your child is doing okay, you feel okay. If your child wakes up anxious, angry, refusing, or completely shut down, your whole morning can unravel in minutes. When school refusal has taken over your mornings, it can leave you feeling stuck, frustrated, exhausted, and alone. You may feel like nothing is working, and every day becomes a battle you do not know how to win.

School refusal parents, you need help — and you do not have to figure this out on your own.

Join us for School Refusal Camp, an 8-week class designed specifically for parents navigating the stress and chaos of school refusal behaviors. This class will help you step back, better understand the reasons behind your child’s refusal, and develop a practical, step-by-step parenting plan to respond more effectively.

Join us for School Refusal Camp , an 8-week class designed specifically for parents navigating the stress and chaos of school refusal behaviors. This class will help you step back, better understand the reasons behind your child’s refusal, and develop a practical, step-by-step parenting plan to re...

05/24/2026

2 Big Time Announcements that Never Made It | Midwest Anxiety Daily 427

Today we are talking about two that somehow never made it to the announcement stage. Hiring Season, onboarding, end-of-the-year chaos, and all the things got moving so fast that these TWO BIG THINGS GOT OVERLOOKED. But let me tell you, they are absolutely worthy of a BIG TIME ANNOUNCEMENT.

These are the kinds of things I love doing because I believe in doing things larger than yourself. I believe in getting out in your community, doing the things you love, putting good into the world, and helping make our communities awesome places to live.

The first big announcement is that I started working for the KC Currentat CPKC Stadium as a guest services member in Section 136. If you know me, you know I love soccer. You also know I love putting good out into the world. So, of course, working at a KC Current game, in the stands, around the energy, the chants, the drums, the flags, and the rowdy supporters just makes sense.
My goal of putting mental health out into our communities is still the goal. Mental health is not only done in therapy offices. Mental health is done in the soccer stands, cheering on your favorite team, smiling at strangers, giving fist bumps, spreading positivity, and being part of something that brings people together. If you are ever at a KC Current game, come find me in Section 136. That’s the supporters section. The loud, drum-beating, chant-singing, flag-waving crowd. I’ll be there giving out smiles, fist bumps, and some good Midwest Anxiety energy.

The second big announcement is that I am volunteering for the 2026 FIFA World Cup in Kansas City. Again, it checks all the boxes. Soccer. Community. Positive vibes. International energy. People coming together from all over the world. Let’s mix it up this summer at the Fan Festival and welcome people to Kansas City the Midwest Anxiety way.

I’m excited to unbox the FIFA World Cup Volunteer Kit with you. We’ve got some great gear, and you already know what I say: when you look good, you feel good, and you live good.

But more than the gear, more than the games, and more than the announcements, this is really about getting out into your community. Do things you love. Be around people. Put positivity into the world. Find ways to make your little corner of the world better. You don’t have to wait for the perfect moment or the perfect platform. Sometimes it starts with a smile, a fist bump, a conversation, or showing up in the places you already love.

I hope today you have a smile on your face, lots of love in your heart, and a little extra motivation to get out there and put some good into the world. See you tomorrow.

05/23/2026

BS (Before Show) WENT ON A RUN TODAY FOR THE FIRST TIME IN A REALLY TIME. MADE ME THINK ABOUT DOING RUNNIN WIT RANDY AGAIN. STRONG POSSIBILITY WE GET RWR GOING AGAIN THIS SUMMER. check stories************

HERES THE LAST RWR OVER 1 YEAR AGO. Enjoy

ALRIGHT YA’LL. BACK OUT FOR ANOTHER RUN. Have to admit something to you. I didn’t want to be out here runnin. My brain is in about 1,000 different places. My body is sore. Trying to get me to take a “rest day.” There are some days you just have to say NO!!! NOT TODAY!! I’m going to have to push myself past what I can do and whatever I can do is just going to have to be good enough AND THAT IS TODAY.

WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO BE SUCCESSFUL??? There are many things that have to go right. Little nuances. Little things that have to go right. THE THING THAT YOU CONTROL IS WHAT YOU PUT INTO IT. It’s your EFFORT. It’s how much you WANT TO BE HUNGRY. How much are you WILLING TO PUSH THROUGH THOSE PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL STRUGGLES. WHATEVER YOUR STRUGGLES ARE. Are you willing to KEEP GOING NO MATTER WHAT. That’s what your success depends on.

HOW HUNGRY ARE YOU TO GET PAST YOUR STRUGGLES??

05/23/2026

UPDATES (should have got these to you sooner….oops) | Midwest Anxiety Daily 426

Good morning, . I’m sitting here early in the morning on May 23, 2026, on the finishing side of a great Midwest Anxiety year. We just wrapped up HIRING SEASON, and we’re getting ready for a downshift week before we get after it again on June 1, 2026, for the start of another Midwest Anxiety year.

Today, albeit a little late, I’m going to update you on a couple things. My apologies. I’ve been heads down trying to hire the best therapists for you for next year. And I really believe I went out and snatched up three of the best therapists I could find. This hiring season, I was more selective. I didn’t just want “a therapist” for Midwest Anxiety. I wanted the right match. Someone skilled. Someone big-hearted. Someone who likes to have fun and do mental health differently. I can’t wait for you to meet Lindsay Bonebrake, Shannon Toalson, and Denise Stutley. They officially start June 1st, and I’ll have you meet them soon after that.

Before then, I’m going to Mexico for some self-care. This is always the week I downshift. One Midwest Anxiety year is done, and another one is about to begin. A vacation in between is always the best feeling.
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Not sure if you caught it, but we are continuing to strengthen our doing mental health differently work in the community. We’ve signed on for another year at Premier Pediatrics-Drs. Winburn-Antovoni, Jensen & Kuckelman and we recently added Pediatric Care Specialists. We love both of these pediatrician groups. Great doctors. Great people. This helps us continue taking mental health out of the therapy office and into the community. Where people live, work, play, and go to the doctor’s office.

Fam, I’ve got to be honest with you about something. I intended to have more of a vlog today. It just fell off. It was a very busy day seeing clients. Sessions at a client’s school, then a home session, then Premier Pediatrics, then I hopped over to Pediatric Care Specialists, then a client session on the soccer field, and then I honestly lost track after that. That’s the MWA thang.

I hope you have a big smile on your face and lots of love in your heart. See you again tomorrow.

We are officially 3 days away from the start of what the   OGs call the fruit of the earth szn. Can’t wait to officially...
05/22/2026

We are officially 3 days away from the start of what the OGs call the fruit of the earth szn. Can’t wait to officially open on Memorial Day. Go get your watermelons. Get your people ready. Clear the table. We are about to throw a full-blown MWA watermelon eating feast. 🍉

We are so excited to continue expanding community-based mental health integration in our community.Our collaboration wit...
05/17/2026

We are so excited to continue expanding community-based mental health integration in our community.

Our collaboration with Pediatric Care Specialists-An Affiliate of Children's Mercy will allow us to make mental health care more accessible, more connected, and more collaborative for children, teens, and families.

This collaboration represents exactly what we believe at Midwest Anxiety: mental health should not be separate from everyday life or everyday care. By integrating mental health support into trusted pediatric settings, we can reduce barriers, strengthen communication, and help families receive support in places they already know and trust.

This is another step toward doing mental health differently.

We are excited to announce a new collaboration with Midwest Anxiety to expand access to mental health support for children, teens, and families in our community.

At Pediatric Care Specialists, we recognize that mental health is an essential part of overall health. By partnering with Midwest Anxiety, we hope to make behavioral health services more accessible, familiar, and connected to the care families already know and trust.

Through this collaboration, families will have access to behavioral health services in a setting connected to their pediatric care -- right here in our office!

This partnership reflects a shared commitment to supporting children and families through compassionate, practical, and whole-person care.

We are grateful to the team at Midwest Anxiety for partnering with us and look forward to the positive impact this collaboration will have for our patients and community. 💙

Read more at https://buff.ly/LStJxY0

Hello MWA families!We want to say thank you to everyone who participated in our Spring Groups. It has been a fantastic e...
05/17/2026

Hello MWA families!

We want to say thank you to everyone who participated in our Spring Groups. It has been a fantastic experience filled with learning, community, connection, and real-life skill building. We are so grateful for everyone who showed up, participated, and helped make these groups meaningful.

Spring Groups have officially ended, and we will transition to our Summer Groups beginning on Saturday, June 6. This summer, we will have four groups running weekly on Saturdays. We are keeping some favorites, including Run Club and Soccer Mentals, and we are adding two new groups: School Refusal Camp for Parents and How to Be an Emotionally Mature Parent.

Our groups give kids, teens, and families the opportunity to practice skills, build confidence, connect with others, and work on goals in a different group setting.

We’re excited for another great season of groups and another opportunity to keep doing mental health differently. For more information about the groups and to register, please visit midwestanxiety.com/groups

RUN CLUB
Saturdays, June 6 – August 2
8:00 AM – 9:30 AM
We’ll walk, jog, or run for about an hour. Everyone moves at their own pace. Some people will walk the whole time. Some will jog. Some might push themselves to run a little farther than they did the week before. It doesn’t matter how you do it — what matters is that you show up and keep moving.

Afterwards, we like to hang out for a bit. Sometimes the kids play in the park. Sometimes families grab something to eat at the Market. It’s relaxed, unstructured time where people can catch their breath, laugh a little, and enjoy being together.

What makes Run Club special is the community that forms around it. Parents get the chance to meet other parents who understand what it’s like raising kids who struggle with anxiety or big emotions. Conversations happen naturally while walking the trail or sitting together afterwards. Encouragement gets shared. Ideas get exchanged. And over time, real friendships begin to grow.

SOCCER MENTALS
Saturdays, June 6 – August 2
10:00 AM – 11:00 AM
Soccer Mentals is designed to train the mental side of the game just as intentionally as the physical side. In this group, players will learn how their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors impact their performance on the field. Using principles from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mental performance training, athletes will develop practical skills that help them stay calm, confident, and focused during competition.

Players will participate in high-pressure drills, competitive exercises, and game-like scenarios that intentionally challenge their mindset. These training moments allow players to practice managing frustration, recovering from mistakes, and maintaining focus while their bodies are tired and emotions are running high.

Soccer Mentals is not just about playing soccer. It is about building the mindset that allows players to compete with confidence, discipline, and emotional control- both on and off the field.

SCHOOL REFUSAL CAMP FOR PARENTS
Saturdays, June 6 – August 2
11:30 AM – 12:30 PM
Every school morning, you wake up hoping, maybe today will be a good day. Maybe today your child will get up, get ready, and go to school without a fight.

But for parents of kids who struggle with school refusal, mornings often feel anything but calm. The entire tone of your day can depend on how your child wakes up. If your child is doing okay, you feel okay. If your child wakes up anxious, angry, refusing, or completely shut down, your whole morning can unravel in minutes. When school refusal has taken over your mornings, it can leave you feeling stuck, frustrated, exhausted, and alone. You may feel like nothing is working, and every day becomes a battle you do not know how to win.

School refusal parents, you need help — and you do not have to figure this out on your own.

Join us for School Refusal Camp, an 8-week class designed specifically for parents navigating the stress and chaos of school refusal behaviors. This class will help you step back, better understand the reasons behind your child’s refusal, and develop a practical, step-by-step parenting plan to respond more effectively.

HOW TO BE AN EMOTIONALLY MATURE PARENT
Saturdays, June 6 – August 2
12:30 PM – 1:30 PM
Children do not get to choose their parents. Unfortunately, many children grow up in homes where their emotional needs are not fully understood or supported. When parents struggle with emotional maturity—difficulty recognizing emotions, avoiding vulnerability, reacting defensively, or prioritizing their own needs over connection—it can lead to a form of harm known as emotional neglect.

Emotional neglect is not always loud or obvious. It often happens quietly over time when children’s feelings are dismissed, ignored, minimized, or misunderstood. While a child’s physical needs may be met, their emotional world may go unseen. Over time, this can create a deep sense of emotional loneliness. Many children raised in these environments grow into adults who struggle with self-doubt, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, or confusion in relationships and intimacy.

The good news is that emotional maturity can be learned.

Join us and other parents for this 8-week step-by-step journey to learn how to become a more emotionally mature parent. This group is designed to help parents better understand how emotional patterns are passed from one generation to the next—and how those patterns can be changed.

05/14/2026

It Is My Birthday | Midwest Anxiety Daily 425

Big shoutout to my girlfriend, Mel. She knew exactly how to decorate for my 50th birthday.

The rocket ship.

She knows how much I love talking with the . She knew I’d be fired up to have the rocket ship all decked out for . That was the perfect birthday setup.

Today, we’re celebrating my 50th birthday and talking about the good, bad, and ugly of the first 50 years of my life. The things I’ve learned. The regrets. The mistakes. The wins. The struggles. The growth. All of it.

My life started out with a young lad being born to a 17-year-old mother. I am so grateful for my mom. Life was not easy. It started with struggle, and through the years, I struggled with anxiety, abandonment, people pleasing, and feeling unworthy.

There were a lot of hard years. I was not in therapy during those early years. My mom encouraged it, but something about therapy just didn’t hit right for me. I think that is a huge reason why we do mental health differently at Midwest Anxiety. I want to provide a mental health option for kids, teens, and families who may not connect with traditional talk therapy. I want them to know there is another way.

There has also been a huge benefit to struggling for so many years. I have persevered. I am determined. I am gritty. I call it the junkyard dawg in me. Since I’m used to life being hard, I’ve learned that I can get through hard things. That is something I talk about all the time now. The benefit and importance of going into the hard things instead of avoiding them.

I am proud of myself for so many things. Getting my bachelor’s degree in psychology. Getting my master’s degree in social welfare. Building Midwest Anxiety. Learning from mistakes. Growing through the good, bad, and ugly.

And who remembers the early years of MWA? I made that bonehead decision to rent a 3,000-square-foot office. Yep. That happened. But I learned from it. I learned that mental health does not have to be trapped inside four walls. I learned that what we were building was bigger than an office.

At 50, I want simple. I want peace. I want to go out and put good things into the world. I want to work hard and play hard. I want my heart to stay open every day to new possibilities. I want to come home, eat a good dinner, and listen to some good music.

I’m also celebrating the last six months of eating healthier and taking better care of my body. At 50, I value kindness and empathy more than ever. Good character matters to me. I have a huge heart for people who struggle because I know what struggle feels like.

And at 50, the R word is not even part of the conversation.

Retirement? Nope. Not happening.

I will never retire. We are just getting started at MWA. Sure, one day I may step back from the day-to-day operations, but I enjoy doing this way too much to stop doing it. This is not just work to me. This is purpose.

I am so blessed. So grateful for the . I love that we get to have these daily conversations. I love that we get to share life. I love that we can be real, genuine, and honest about the good, bad, and ugly things in life. I love that we can be humans first.

So here’s my birthday wish: let’s treat people like it’s their birthday every day. Not just on their birthday. Every day.

I hope you have a big smile on your face and lots of love in your heart. Thank you for being part of this journey. Thank you for continuing to ride with us.

Let’s do this again in 50 years.

05/13/2026

PEDIATRIC CARE SPECIALISTS COLLABORATION

We are excited to officially introduce our newest integrative health care collaboration with Pediatric Care Specialists-An Affiliate of Children's Mercy.

At Midwest Anxiety, we are continuing our mission of doing mental health differently by bringing practical, skill-based mental health support into the places where kids, teens, and families already receive care.

This collaboration allows Midwest Anxiety to provide behavioral health services in connection with Pediatric Care Specialists’ office setting, helping families access mental health support in a more familiar, convenient, and approachable way.

And while we are making this big announcement, we also want to give a big shoutout to Premier Pediatrics-Drs. Winburn-Antovoni, Jensen & Kuckelman.

Premier Pediatrics has agreed to continue with us for another year, and they will always hold a special place in MWA’s heart. They trusted us. They believed in what we were trying to build. They gave us our first real opportunity to integrate mental health services into health care.

We will forever be grateful to Premier Pediatrics for giving us that first chance.

Because mental health should not be stuck only inside a therapy office.

It should be part of real life.
It should be easier to access.
It should be connected to the people and places families already trust.

This is another step forward in our mission to take mental health care out of the traditional box and bring it into the real world.

Welcome to the , Pediatric Care Specialists.

And thank you, Premier Pediatrics, for continuing to ride with us.

That’s how we do mental health differently.

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