08/12/2026
It can be tempting to imagine that a practitioner is somehow immune to the ups and downs of life. But, of course, that isn’t the case.
Part of being a practitioner, for me, is learning to show up honestly to the challenges of my own life. Whether I find myself in a cloudy moment or a clear one, I’ve learned that there are certain things that reliably bring me back to a sense of joy, alignment, and purpose:
🍵 A cup of fine tea. Green, white, puer. Brewing a pot of tea, especially in nature will always bring me back to my center.
📚A great story that invites me to reflect on my own life. Lately I’ve been exploring The Lord of the Rings and C.S. Lewis’s Space Trilogy ( I have found these surprisingly rich and meaningful)
🏔️Philosophy and Spiritual reading. The practice of Lectio Divina (a sort of meditative reading ) reliably expands my perspective and supports my alignment). I’m currently exploring the contemplative roots of Christianity and the bridge between Stoicism and early Christian thought.
🎵 improvisation with music. You may not know that I’m a musician. Music has always given me a way to reconnect with what I’m feeling and return to a sense of beauty, presence, and joy, regardless of what may be happening around me.
And, most importantly, my family.
The daily work of becoming a better man, husband, and father continually brings me back to something larger than myself, a deeper sense of purpose, responsibility, and unconditional love.
These are some of the things that bring me home to myself, so that I can continue to show up for others.
Michael