Melissa Bono-Geib

Melissa Bono-Geib I am a Wife| Mom of two Blessings| Food and Environment Enthusiasts. My passion is helping women lead their healthiest & happiest lives ever! Hello There!!

Thank you so much for stoping in and, taking a look at my page! I hope you hit the "like" button and come back for delicious clean recipes, funny mom days, fitness tips, and daily motivation! I want this page to be a safe, and positive place! I want to share my journey here as a mom, in fitness, being a wife, and new business professional. I want to share it all with YOU. This means, the good, th

e bad, and the ugly. That's what motherhood is about right?! We know it's not all roses and rainbows. I want to share my story to hold myself accountable, and in the midst of that I hope to inspire someone ready to make themselves a priority. I am married to a man who serves our country in the Army, and although the road to where we are now was bumpy and full of twist and turns, I wouldn't change our story for the world. No marriage is perfect, and ours is no different. We make our marriage a priority because, this sets a good example to our kids. Our kids fill our hearts with so much laughter, love and joy. They also challenge us in so many ways through patience and acceptance. Through all of the challenges, the most amazing thing about children is, they always love with all their heart, and unconditionally. When I became a mom for the first time, five years ago I can clearly remember immersing myself completely. For two years I lost my self in everything baby and toddler. In that two years, I lost what made me, me. I no longer was Melissa, but Luke's mom. I was lacking confidence in my physical and emotional state, and had an abundance of anxiety. Thanks to a friend, I slowly got out of that funk. However, even years later I still was lacking something, something I couldn't really put my finger on. I was doing all the right things, going to a gym; but seeing no results. I was continuing my education, and I was working as a full time teacher. With all these different pockets of my life, I still felt like a visitor in my own body. I was anxious all the time, and it took it's toll on my personal relationships. Fast forward to having my sweet baby girl, and moving cross country, and leaving family. I could see that my anxiety was beginning to start up again. I was again unhappy with my body, and even though I was "skinny" I lacked that confidence. I knew I needed some kind of change. I came across an opportunity to work out at home, where I could fit this in between school, nap times, and self play times. After my first round I was HOOKED! The accountability groups, where you check in, and are held accountable for getting in those workouts, and eating the right foods was genius! After my first round I didn't magically lose all my post baby weight. Yes, I lost some pounds and inches however, I was still on a fitness journey. What I GAINED through these groups however outweighed my physical transformation. I found the CONFIDENCE I have been lacking for so long, I was taught how to properly fuel my body in a healthy way that not only serves me, but keeps my milk supply strong for my baby. I was learning, maybe for the first time since becoming a mom that it's just as important, if not the most important to fill YOUR own cup because, if I don't fill mine, I can not effectively and lovingly fill my families. I learned to LOVE my body, even through the obvious imperfections because this body grew and birthed two babies from scratch and, I have the pleasure and privilege to move it each day. I fell in love with the community of moms I was introduced to in these groups. The endless amount of support is incredibly inspiring! The COMMUNITY, the programs, the SUPPORT, and the RESULTS all work together to produce something that works! After my second round in these programs, I knew that I wanted to pay this forward and help other moms find who they are. Through lots of soul searching I realized that becoming a coach was a path I needed to take, and a path I was being called to take in my life. Being a military wife, at this point in my life I have the privilege of staying home. However, I want that to continue. I love being a teacher, it truly is a passion of mine, but the time spent with my children is far to precious to pass up. I fit my bussiness in the small "pockets" of mommy-hood while still providing the support, encouragement, and direction to the women and moms looking to find who they are, aside from being only mommy. The heart I have for this busniess is unwavering. I truly am loving being apart of this coach community, and a member of my amazing team. Again, Thank you for stopping by! I hope you click the "like" button. I hope I can inspire you to always fill your cup first. You simply can not pour from an empty one.

“my children aren’t even going to remember how many push ups I was able to do...⁣they won’t remember how fast I was able...
07/13/2020

“my children aren’t even going to remember how many push ups I was able to do...⁣
they won’t remember how fast I was able to run a 5k...⁣
They aren’t going to remember what size I was ...or wasn’t for that matter....⁣
BUT they will remember that their mommy was strong. ⁣
That she was fierce. ⁣
That she believed in herself when no body else did. ⁣
despite all the times things got tough , insanely tough...⁣
Despite al the times it would have been easier to quit, my children will remember that wa when mommy pushed harder. ⁣
I want my children to look back and say, “because of my mommy, I never gave up.” -Kara Lawler Regan Long ⁣

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I did an early morning workout this morning, & these two showed up right as the end. Luke knows I HATE early morning workouts first thing, I’m a 9/10 am girl 😂 ⁣

I almost melted. He said “mom! You hate early workouts, proud of you!” 😍❤️😍❤️ ⁣

lately Luke is very interested in what I do. every day he’s asking me questions about what workout I’m doing, the trainer, who I talk to on my phone, the women I have calls with.... he’s a curious boy. ⁣

for 4 years they have watched me show up daily for me. I’ve shown up imperfectly, for my own sanity. so I can be the best me, mom, partner, & friend I can be! I know that the evolving of the last 4 years has come from me taking the intentional time to fill my own cup. ⁣

it’s not selfish to do something for yourself , mamas. celebrate the journey ladies, and know you are worth the effort l just as much as everyone else in your house. give yourself some grace and celebrate every milestone along the way, & set the example for those little eyes watching. ⁣

they don’t need a perfect mom, they need you, showing up as YOUR best, & strongest self. 😍⁣ they really are always watching.

double tap & tag a mama who needs some encouragement on her journey. ❤️⁣
⁣ @ Olympia, Washington

“took my kids to the beach and tried to release them like I’ve seen sea turtle parents do, but they just stood there & a...
07/07/2020

“took my kids to the beach and tried to release them like I’ve seen sea turtle parents do, but they just stood there & asked me for snacks.” 😂😂⁣

who else is constantly getting snacks?! 🙋🏻‍♀️😂🤪⁣

we’re friends right? I think of us that way, just hanging out, having  coffee or sipping some wine. so here are some thi...
06/24/2020

we’re friends right? I think of us that way, just hanging out, having coffee or sipping some wine. so here are some things I wish I learned sooner as an entrepreneur.. ⁣

🖤 starting your business is the easy part. these days anyone with an iPhone and some cash can start. the hard part is AFTER you start. are you willing to have grit & grace? ⁣

🖤 stop worrying about ‘annoying’ people. there is nothing annoying about do something you love, WHILE being servant hearted and authentic. & anyone who isn’t into what you’ve got going on isn’t forced into being on your page. There is a lovely ‘UNFOLLOW’ button. ⁣

🖤if you’re chasing money, it probably won’t work honey! 😉 if you come from a place of “who will buy from me/support my business” you’re missing the point. instead, come from a place of “who can I SERVE. “who can I empathize with to do what’s best for THEM.”⁣

🖤 anything you want to learn can be found on google, google is your best friend.👯‍♀️ everything you want to learn won’t come easily at first, & you’ll most likely get frustrated. take a deep breath, & take the time to learn. ⁣

🖤 no one is responsible for YOUR business other than you. there is no excuse big enough for a women, heck for a mom who is determined to accomplish what she wants. the greatest women leaders I know taught themselves. 📚 📝 ⁣

I think we’re running out of wine here.. 😂 these are things I took way too long to learn but sis, if you hear nothing else hear this... ⁣

they only thing standing in your way of succeeding is DECISION to go for IT! you are wildly capable, & worthy! & I’m here to be your cheerleader along the way. 🥂 to building a longer table. ⁣

starting Wednesday I’m sharing all about what I do in my coaching sneak peek! if you’ve been curious, this is a great way to just come, hang, & get info on how I am building a business from home. ⁣

if you want to join us, just click the link below to join the group! 🧡>>> bit.ly/3hQGbby

“be kind to everyone, make friends with anyone.” ⁣⁣I say that to Luke everyday I drop him off at school. I realized toda...
06/03/2020

“be kind to everyone, make friends with anyone.” ⁣

I say that to Luke everyday I drop him off at school. I realized today, I obviously haven’t said it in a while, but the message is still the same. ⁣

it’s not, be kind to everyone only if they: ⁣
look like you. ⁣
vote like you. ⁣
love like you. ⁣

it’s be kind to everyone. period. ⁣

so while I KNOW I will never understand , I will stand WITH you, and educate myself. ✌🏼🧡⁣

“God cares about how we treat each other because we are all created in His image. He makes no distinction between the inherent value of one race or ethnicity over another.” ⁣

“on no she didn’t! talking about race & faith in ONE post?!” ⁣

I sure did! because here on my page, my business, in my home, and in my life: I’m not so much interested in building an empire, as I am interested in tearing DOWN walls, & BUILDING a longer TABLE. ⁣

you are welcome here. 🧡

5 tips for achieving your fitness goals: ⁣⁣GRACE⁣GRACE ⁣GRACE ⁣GRACE ⁣GRACE ⁣⁣I want you to let go of the chains you’ve ...
05/18/2020

5 tips for achieving your fitness goals: ⁣

GRACE⁣
GRACE ⁣
GRACE ⁣
GRACE ⁣
GRACE ⁣

I want you to let go of the chains you’ve previously had, the mentality of perfection, and the endless shame, guilt, bad talking cycle you continue to find yourself in. ⁣

friend, all you need is a little grace, be willing work and to show up as your best, and believe, even if it’s a mustard seed of belief, that you CAN do hard things.⁣

I never thought getting healthy would be part of my career path. ⁣

when I started my first program, at 8 weeks postpartum I was done. ⁣

I was done. blaming others for why I didn’t have the energy I craved. I was done being reactive, I was done accepting less when I knew I was made for MORE. ⁣

then, once I stared to see how I was FEELING, what this opportunity was doing in my life.. I felt the tug to share my story. ⁣

I felt that God was using this opportunity as the vehicle to do what I know He’s called me to be & do: TEACH, INSPIRE , & ENCOURAGE others. use my mess & imperfection to be a light to others. ⁣




MONDAY night (tomorrow) I’m hosting a fun call! kind of like a blind date! 🧡 to share my STORY, why I decided to start this business, and how YOU can too! ⁣

I LOVE our virtual wellness community, of women achieving their health goals , BUT I’m so passionate about running alongside other women who want MORE for their health & wouldn’t mind building financial freedom for their lives as well. & getting to do it with a fun group of women! 💃🏻⁣

Post a 🧡 to be a part of the call! I’ll send a link beforehand! ⁣

you are a CEO! ⁣whether you own a business or not, you are a CEO; you are the CEO of your own life!⁣⁣can I be vulnerable...
05/12/2020

you are a CEO! ⁣
whether you own a business or not, you are a CEO; you are the CEO of your own life!⁣

can I be vulnerable with you for a second? I used to place SO much weight on my relationships. I held the person I was dating RESPONSIBLE for my happiness. ⁣

I did that in the beginning of my marriage, and I’ll tell you, we had a lot of growing pains. ⁣

rich joining the Army, and us being separated for 7 months was very hard for me, BUT it was the very thing I needed. it was then, that I started realizing, I am in charge of me, & my own happiness; I realized that placing that sole responsibility on Rich wasn’t fair. ⁣

over the last 4 years of being on this journey, I’ve felt less and less guilty for taking care of myself first. ⁣

the alternative was, I would put everyone else ahead of me, I would feel guilty for taking a long shower let alone a workout, & the only thing that came from that was misery, reactiveness, and feeling pi**ed off. ⁣

now: my kids, my family BENEFITS from me holding the number one spot in my life. ⁣

friend to friend? when our kids see us show up for ourselves, build a business, MOVE our bodies, read books, pray, spend time to know Jesus... ⁣

when they SEE us do that, we are showing them what self worth is, & how to get it. we are showing them they are capable. we are showing them what it means to be brave. you are showing them what it means to SERVE, & be obedient even when it’s hard. you are showing them integrity. ⁣

my next group for May {Made for More} is ⁣
o p e n for enrollment! I’m looking for 5 women who want to embrace that they are the CEO of their own lives, & who want to feel strong & confident in who they are becoming. fill out the app in my bio, or comment a 🧡 below if you want more info!! ⁣

I remember the day I decided to be a coach. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I was 3 months postpartum, and 3 months into being apart of the virtua...
05/08/2020

I remember the day I decided to be a coach. ⁣⁣⁣
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I was 3 months postpartum, and 3 months into being apart of the virtual wellness BootCamp I decided to be apart of, after following a pregnant mom on social media. ⁣⁣⁣
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community. ⁣⁣⁣
Love for Jesus ⁣⁣⁣
a desire for more. ⁣⁣⁣
support.⁣⁣⁣
Accountability. ⁣⁣⁣
friendships. ⁣⁣⁣
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I saw what my coach was building. I saw the potential, and I wanted to be apart of it; I wanted to create my own community. I decided to go all in. I didn’t realize how LITTLE I knew about owning a business. I didn’t know how to build a brand, be on social media. I didn’t know how to run my own group. I had zero idea what I was doing or how to be successful. ⁣⁣⁣
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I remember, in the beginning I would prop my phone against Graces wipe box. I didn’t have any fancy equipment, and I cringe at old videos!⁣⁣⁣ s w i p e to see a VERY different Melissa 😂🙈⁣⁣⁣
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the only thing I know was, I wanted more. more for myself, more for my family. I wanted this little thing for myself. ⁣⁣⁣
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I fell in love with taking care of myself, & more than anything I wanted others to feel that; to feel the j o y that comes when we let go of ideals, + just embrace the journey. ⁣⁣⁣
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I desired to do more, + I chose to listen to the little tug God placed on my heart. ⁣⁣⁣
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I continue to learn to stop allowing fear, doubt , and shame control my decisions, and intentionally L E A N into who God is calling me to be. ⁣⁣⁣
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friend to friend?! You do not have to have it all figured out in the beginning, you just have to start! you just have to come with an open mind, willing + coachable heart. ⁣⁣⁣
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& the best part it, you are never ALONE! my team + I, we are in this together! we are there working hard, serving others, and biking big businesses together! ⁣⁣⁣
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Enrollment for my May mentorship is O P E N! I can’t wait to welcome the woman who have no CLUE what they are doing, but are ready to learn, have fun, serve others + show up anyway! 🧡⁣⁣⁣
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you’re welcome here! comment below to learn more about building a business, from home. ❤️

⁣I used  to think being a perfectionist was a badge of honor.⁣⁣ I remember being in school , and I’d start to write in m...
05/06/2020


I used to think being a perfectionist was a badge of honor.⁣

I remember being in school , and I’d start to write in my notebook, and if my handwriting wasn’t to my standards, or what I thought it SHOULD look like, I’d rip that paper out of my notebook and start again. ⁣
talk about a waste of time! ⁣

I saw this in the beginning of faith journey too.⁣
I thought I had to come to Jesus with the most perfect handwriting & poetic prayers. ⁣

“what if someone saw my scribble cursive or sometimes ugly thoughts?” they would see that the “all together” girl I was trying to portray wasn’t real.⁣

I used to think God didn’t want my messy. ⁣
that maybe God was mad at my anxiety, need to succeed, be seen, stress or struggle.⁣

I realized, the hard way, I was being too hard on myself for being human. ⁣

do you think you can’t be successful or achieve a goal because you, your life, or circumstances may be a mess? ⁣

sis, that’s where God does His best work. He welcomes all: failing, faithless, those of us trying to figure it out, or forget to pray, + those of us with beautiful handwriting, & poetic prayers. He qualifies the called, not calls the qualified. He sees all the mess, all the parts we want to hide, & uses that for His glory. ⁣

your mess, my mess.. that can be our greatest ministry & messages to encourage others. ⁣

being a perfectionist isn’t a badge of honor, it’s a prison cell. ⁣

It leaves no room for grace, mistakes, growth, or failures. it leaves no room for messy, ordinary, mundane, or weakness. ⁣

friend to friend? ⁣
no more aiming for perfection. ⁣

allow yourself to meet Jesus in the mess, the ugly, and in the broken. give yourself grace, know the difference between not showing up to life, & just being too hard on yourself, + see how beautifully you unfold then. 🍃🧡⁣

today is all we have. don’t wait, don’t waste your time on perfection. we need you here!💕✌🏼⁣

TAG A GF WHO MAY NEED THIS ENCOURAGEMENT.

a few years ago I was driving around doing errands... ⁣⁣⁣⁣I had to make a U- turn to pull into a shopping center, and I ...
04/21/2020

a few years ago I was driving around doing errands... ⁣⁣
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I had to make a U- turn to pull into a shopping center, and I estimated WAY wrong & literally drove over the median. my car was STUCK! I was in a turning lane & I was holding up traffic. ⁣⁣
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I was so embarrassed, & ashamed, and I beat myself up for making such a “dumb mistake.” ⁣⁣

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I laugh now looking back. I remember vividly the cop saying “in my 15 years of service I’ve never seen anyone do this.” I mean he felt so bad for me I didn’t even get a ticket, or charged from AAA! I wasn’t laughing then, but now I laugh when I look back! 🙈😂⁣⁣
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so much of my life I’ve beaten myself up for being human. I would often forget how human I actually was, until I’d mess up & fail, & my humanness would smack me right in the face!⁣⁣
⁣⁣ the Melissa I paint needs to have it all together! doesn’t she?! ⁣⁣
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the problem is, that Melissa is an unrealistic standard. ⁣⁣
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so today, as I stare at the sink full of dishes I’ve let pile up all day, arguments about homework, & screen time, the pile of laundry that needs to be folded in the living room, and the dinner that still needs to be cooked; I’m reminded how very human I am. some days I crush it, most days I’m just human. ⁣⁣
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when I accept this TRUTH, it brings me back to Jesus; to a Love I can’t EARN, but am FREELY given. His love can’t be felt by the perfect idea I paint of myself, it can only be FELT by the real me; messy & broken. ⁣⁣
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so here’s your INVITATION to be your very human, messy & broken self. your mistakes, your story, your ugly thoughts.. they aren’t the enemy... they are the way we feel perfect GRACE. ⁣⁣

𝐀𝐧 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐲 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 “𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐲” 𝐛𝐲 .anjuli ⁣⁣“Imagine for a moment you are alone.. no books, no Netflix , no counters ...
04/20/2020

𝐀𝐧 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐲 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 “𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐲” 𝐛𝐲 .anjuli ⁣

“Imagine for a moment you are alone.. no books, no Netflix , no counters sorely decorated with dishes , no phone. ⁣
imagine there is quite. ⁣

The longer you sit, the more you feel. The silence is scary. The argument with your spouse bubbles up to the surface, the sarcastic comment your friend made days ago still hurts, the loneliness you feel in motherhood slices open a shameful hole. Your longings begin to rise. The guilt over not being fully present with your kids rubs you, the loss of a loved one aches, the guilt for not being further along in your spiritual life stings. ⁣

The longer you sit, the more your memories take you back to years ago. The anger of your father makes your chest tighten, and the neighborhood boy who teased you incessantly stirs up feelings of embarrassment. All of these complicated memories and feelings make you want to jump up, reply to texts, or reach for a wineglass. ⁣

but for a moment, stay. ⁣

imagine the very places you want to fix, avoid, get swallowed in, power through, shout Bible verses at, stuff, or run from are actually the very way to wholeness. Imagine , instead of getting up to investigate what is under the couch or neurotically tidying the mail, you let all those feelings rise. You let them come up to the surface to breath. You open your heart, talk to Jesus, find love. Imagine hiding is inviting you to follow these feelings. Imagine if you could stay with all those unfinished places within your soul and story and let them become your pathway to freedom.” ⁣🙌🏻

I encourage you to RUN & get this book! It’s like a drink of fresh water for your soul. ⁣
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I hope this week you feel comfort in knowing you have a savior who loves you in the beautiful parts of your life AND in your mess; in your darkest thoughts & feelings. ⁣

may you be encouraged this week to show up fully for your life, but also know there is beauty in the waiting. The mess you are in, the mundane, may you know deep within your heart it’s where God is calling you to be. 🧡

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