Integrative Psychological Services

Integrative Psychological Services Therapy for humans navigating relationships, trauma, and the messy (and beautiful) parts of being alive.

As a collective, we assist our clients by providing traditional talk-therapy, somatic therapy, reiki, yoga, EMDR, brainspotting, and more.

Healing often gets talked about like it’s about always searching for some new insight. Some new realization. Some new sk...
06/16/2026

Healing often gets talked about like it’s about always searching for some new insight. Some new realization. Some new skill. Some answer we haven’t found yet. Some new….something. And sometimes, yeah, that’s true.

But even more so? The work is finally trusting what you already knew. The feeling you kept talking yourself out of…the shift you noticed but couldn’t explain…the part of you that said “something isn’t right here”…that part of you that knew what you needed (or wanted)…the part of you that knew what was hurting…the part of you that knew what wasn’t working anymore…the gut feeling, the instinctual knowing of your nervous system. The wisdom of your body…what some part of you already knew.

And it’s one of the hardest parts of healing. Not finding yourself, but coming back to yourself. Listening to yourself. Trusting yourself. It’s finally giving yourself permission to believe what you’ve known all along.

One of the privileges many people never have to think about is whether they’ll be accepted before they walk into a room....
06/09/2026

One of the privileges many people never have to think about is whether they’ll be accepted before they walk into a room.
If it’s safe to mention their partner.
If they can be fully themselves.
If they’ll be judged, questioned, misunderstood, or treated differently because of who they are.
For many LGBTQIA+ people, these questions aren’t hypothetical.
They’re everyday considerations.
And carrying that kind of weight has a cost.

Pride is a celebration. It should be.
And it’s also a reminder that safety, belonging, affirmation, and acceptance still matter. And aren’t always freely given. And are critical to mental health. To well-being. To aliveness.

We believe people heal best when they don’t have to shrink themselves to be accepted. When parts of themselves don’t have to hide or go away to be loved.

And here, ALL of you belongs.

Happy Pride Month. 🏳️‍🌈

There’s this idea sometimes that therapists sit in a chair silently analyzing people all day like emotionally detached l...
05/14/2026

There’s this idea sometimes that therapists sit in a chair silently analyzing people all day like emotionally detached little robots with clipboards and judgment and perfect coping skills.

We’re not.

We’re humans who just happen to have training, perspective, education, and tools…but still…humans. We know what grief feels like. Anxiety. Shame. Attachment wounds. Overthinking. Relationship struggles. Fear. Burnout. Self-doubt. The messy, painful, beautiful bits.

And some of the things people feel most ashamed of in therapy are the things we understand the most deeply. We’re just healing humans helping humans heal. We get it. We see you. And we are here to be with you in it..wherever that is.

Some us learn early in life that our belonging, our worth, love….came from giving of ourself to others….from helping, ca...
05/13/2026

Some us learn early in life that our belonging, our worth, love….came from giving of ourself to others….from helping, caretaking, supporting, fixing, keeping everything together. So then, and now, you overextend yourself, you say “yes” when you mean “no”, you struggle to ask for (or accept) help…maybe you feel guilty doing nothing or something for yourself, maybe you only feel “like yourself” when you’re useful to someone else.

This makes total sense if in the past, your belonging was tied to or contingent upon what you did for others. Being needed got you through. But eventually, you become so focused on others that you become completely disconnected from your self…your own needs don’t matter or feel inconvenient…exhaustion becomes the default… you become resentful..care, comfort, connection feel like something you have to earn. And what worked for you then…just isn’t, anymore.

You are allowed to exist outside of what you do for others. Your worth is not dependent on how much you’re needed, how much you show up, how much you sacrifice, extend yourself, wear yourself out…self betrayal and exhaustion are not noble. You do not have to prove your place and value in this world by how much you carry. You also have needs (we promise, you do, and of course you do because we ALL do) and you deserve to be shown up for, cared for, and provided for.

Overwhelm doesn’t always look like spiraling or falling apart or shutting down. Sometimes its getting irritated by “litt...
05/12/2026

Overwhelm doesn’t always look like spiraling or falling apart or shutting down. Sometimes its getting irritated by “little things”…or feeling “drained” often…or not wanting to return calls or texts because it feels like “a lot”…or feeling numb or apathetic, like you just can’t access any emotion…or avoiding social interactions or events because it feels exhausting… or feeling constantly overstimulated….like when you get home from work and it feels like your whole body is buzzing and your kiddo yells “mom!” from the other room…or you stub your toe walking into the kitchen….or the phone rings…or the lights feel too bright and the tv feels too loud and your clothes feel too tight…and all of a sudden feel like you’re going to explode with homicidal rage? Yeah, like that.

We aren’t robots. We do not, as much as we’d like to, have limitless capacity to hold all of the things, all of the time. Our systems can only intake and process so much at once. And if we are already carrying a lot of unhealed and unaddressed stuff (like anxiety, trauma, unmet needs, relational wounding, unstated boundaries, etc etc), then the every day stuff, the stuff that we really need the internal room for, can easily become “too much” and overload our system.

A lot of us are carrying way more stimulation, stress, emotional pressure, responsibility, and mental load than our system has capacity for. And continuing to function doesn’t mean we’re fine or okay…it just means our body is doing what it’s supposed to do…find a way to survive and keep going.

Just because you’re making it, doesn’t mean that your system isn’t overwhelmed, or that you’re okay, or that you don’t need support. Overwhelm isn’t always loud, and sometimes it is…your body will tell you, one way or another.

You can be functioning… and still not be okay. “Making it”…doing the things, showing up, working, paying the bills, runn...
05/11/2026

You can be functioning… and still not be okay. “Making it”…doing the things, showing up, working, paying the bills, running the errands, keeping the children (and yourself) alive…is all good. But it doesn’t mean that you are well.

We keep going, in part, because the things must be done or things fall apart, right? And maybe there is also a part of you that keeps going because you think you have to, no matter what. Maybe because of cultural expectations and norms, maybe because your experiences in life have shaped you to be the “responsible one”, “the strong one”, maybe its avoidance because if you pause long enough, everything hurts and feels hard, or maybe, and probably, you’re just trying to survive.

But survival and wellness are not always the same thing. Functioning doesn’t mean that you feel safe…rested…supported…grounded…connected…or okay. You might be convincing yourself that you’re “fine” because you’re still managing to get through, and you still might be carrying grief..anxiety…burnout…pain…disconnection…or trauma.

Who of us aren’t, really. It’s hard out here. We know. But you deserve to be well…and living, not just surviving, is possible.

We love a good practical skill, yes?If you’re feeling like you’re going “backwards” in your progress/healing...when your...
05/07/2026

We love a good practical skill, yes?

If you’re feeling like you’re going “backwards” in your progress/healing...when your system gets pulled back into something old…the typical response is to try to work it out in your head…analyze, figure it out, make sense of it. But when your body is activated…thinking about it can actually make it worse, make the feeling bigger than it needs to be. Your nervous system doesn’t need reasoning or rationale…it isn’t looking for logic….it’s looking for cues of safety (and spoiler: cues of safety, or lack thereof, come from sensory input).

So instead of trying to understand or fix what you’re feeling…try shifting what your body is taking in. Change something around you:

Turn on a light
Get up and move (shift weight from one side of your body to another, push against a wall, shake it out)
Go outside
Run your hands under water (whatever temp you prefer)
Grab something textured or soft (a blanket, a favorite sweatshirt, a pillow)
Chew a piece of mint gum, eat a mind, use mouthwash
Put your feet on the ground and press down
Turn on a mood shifting song

Doesn’t have to be anything big or dramatic…just something that tells your system, “we’re not where we were before” and brings your awareness to what is happening, now. Because a lot of the time, the feeling you are having is not coming from what is happening in the now…it’s a body memory, rising up from the ashes of something that happened back then.

And small environmental shifts help your body to orient back to the present, back to, “I am okay, right now.”

…and it has a lot less to do with willpower and more to do with how your nervous system works to protects you. Your nerv...
05/06/2026

…and it has a lot less to do with willpower and more to do with how your nervous system works to protects you.

Your nervous system is wired to keep you SAFE. And if you’ve experienced chronic stress, trauma, overwhelm…your system adapts…it learns what to watch for, what to avoid, when to shrink and when to get big, when to respond quickly, when to hide or run or shield, when to fight back and when to stay quiet…your body learns to do what it needs to do to keep you safe in whatever circumstances that you weren’t. You aren’t overreacting… you aren’t “dramatic” or “too much” or “broken”…there isn’t something wrong with you. Your body is doing exactly what it is supposed to because at one time, those responses worked..they got you through something.

The thing is…those responses, those patterns…they don’t just stop or disappear because your life looks different now. They live in your system…in a body blueprint for how to exist in the world, in relationships, and in your own self…in the safest way possible.

So when you start the healing process…when you start feeling more regulated, more open, more grounded, safer… your system doesn’t immediately trust it. It checks, it’s cautious. “Is this actually safe?”…”Can I let my guard down here?”…”What will happen if I don’t respond the way I used to?” And that checking can look like things feeling better…then suddenly familiar again, moments of calm…followed by activation, connection…then shutting down. Please trust us: you’re not going backwards. You’re not regressing or losing progress or doing it wrong. Your system is trying to update, trying to write a new set of blueprints for a plan that has existed for a long time.

Real healing work happens slowly, sometime in consistently, in waves and layers. Both learning something new…and unlearning something that your body has been practicing over and over again…and that takes repetition, intentionality, experiencing safety and goodness more than once…coming back to it again and gain.

So the back and forth? That means it’s working. That means your body is doing exactly what it’s supposed to be doing…learning, testing, and slowly expanding what feels possible.

The inconsistency of healing can feel disorienting…and can make people start questioning everything. There may be a few ...
05/05/2026

The inconsistency of healing can feel disorienting…and can make people start questioning everything.

There may be a few days where you’re like…’okay…I think I’m better.’ You feel calmer…you’re not spiraling as fast or as often…you pause instead of reacting…you feel lighter, more connected to yourself, maybe more connected to others.

But then something small happens… a tone, a look, a shift…and then your body says: ‘absolutely not.’ Your chest tightens…jaw locks…thoughts get loud… or maybe you completely shut down. And you’re right…back…in it. Same reactions, same feelings, same ‘what the hell just happened?’ So now you’re thinking, ‘cool…so none of that stuck?’ It can feel frustrating. Defeating. Humbling. We get it (because we’ve been there).

And this is the part that messes with people the most…the ups and downs…the ‘I thought I was okay’ to ‘apparently not.’ It can feel like you’ve lost progress. But listen…it’s the opposite, okay? The back and forth? The pendulum swinging? The ins and outs? It’s actually the very evidence to support that you ARE healing…because if nothing was changing…you wouldn’t notice the difference.

There isn’t something wrong with you…this is part of the process. We promise.

We’re sure you’ve heard it said before…”healing isn’t linear.” Cliche’, we know. (But still true). And part of mental he...
05/04/2026

We’re sure you’ve heard it said before…”healing isn’t linear.” Cliche’, we know. (But still true).

And part of mental health awareness is understanding what that means in real life.

Healing can feel inconsistent in a way that people don’t always expect or understand. One day, something feels lighter…more settled…like something is actually shifting. And then the next day…or even sometimes the next moment…it’s back. The same old feeling, the same old reaction, the same weight in your body. It can feel confusing…it can feel like you’ve lost progress…like you’re going backwards…like maybe you aren’t really healing after all.

But Loves, healing doesn’t move in a straight line. It doesn’t follow a clean, predictable path from hurt to healed…it moves in waves, in layers…it twists, it turns…it ebbs, it flows…in moments where things integrate…and moments where they resurface.

And please hear us when we say: it isn’t because you’re failing…or regressing…or not healing. It’s because your system is still learning something new. Still practicing…still figuring out what is safe, how to do things different, what is possible now. And that does not (cannot) happen all at once.

This is a part of mental health that people don’t always see…the in-between, the back and forth, the messy middle.

So yeah, healing is inconsistent. If it feels like you’re gaining traction then get stuck…if it feels like 1 step forward, 3 back…it doesn’t mean you’re back at the beginning…it means you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be…you’re in it.

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