06/04/2026
“The problem isn’t you, it’s your husband.”
I am sure half of you just said, “Finally, someone put this into print…” 😂
One of the weirdest parts of being an adult is that during almost every major life transition… having babies, changing careers, moving, grieving, healing, starting over… the person standing closest to us through all of it is usually our spouse.
Which also makes them the person most likely to get hit with the dramatic sigh, the eye roll, or the irrational rage that starts with:
“Can you PLEASE stop breathing so loud?”
Even if it’s anxiety, stress or the suffocating feeling of being overwhelmed without knowing where to start… it’s followed by resentment that shows up when we’re exhausted & touched out… the last straw is pulled when your husband has the audacity to smack your butt. 😤👿
⭐️ The good news?
Healthy relationships can survive a surprising amount of mutual annoyance, because underneath the irritation is usually two people doing their best while navigating new waters.
Before you fake your own disappearance and join a convent, come pull up a chair at HER Table. ✨🪑🫶🏼