05/18/2026
Your body keeps score, even when your mind tries to move on.
When something feels threatening, whether that's a difficult conversation, an unexpected email, or a memory that surfaces out of nowhere, your nervous system kicks in before you even have a chance to think.
Fight looks like irritability, defensiveness, or the urge to push back hard. Flight looks like avoiding, leaving, or staying busy so you never have to sit with it. Freeze looks like shutting down, going numb, or feeling stuck in place.
None of these is a character flaw. They are survival responses that your body learned, often a long time ago, and has been practicing ever since.
The goal isn't to stop these responses from ever happening. It's to understand them well enough that they stop running the show without your awareness. When you know what's happening in your body, you get more choice in how you respond.
That's the kind of work therapy makes possible.