06/04/2026
The people who ask about them years later...
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One of the biggest misconceptions about grief is that talking about our loved ones will make us sad or remind us of our loss.
The truth is, most grieving people have not forgotten.
When you say their name, ask about them, or share a memory, you are reminding us that they mattered. That they are still remembered. That their life continues to have meaning.
More often than not, when someone asks about him, her, or them, I light up.
I get the chance to tell a story.
To share a memory.
To speak their name.
No matter how much time has passed, many of us still want to hear and talk about the people we love.
So if youâre wondering whether to bring them up...
Ask.
You may be giving a gift.