07/29/2026
Some memories aren’t meant to be forgotten.
But they don’t have to keep feeling like they’re happening now.
After four tours in Iraq, Jim carried one experience he called “the worst day of my life.”
Years had passed.
The danger was over.
But when he recalled that one, specific day, the emotional intensity was still a “10 out of 10.”
This is one of the difficult realities of trauma…
Time can move forward while parts of the nervous system continue responding to reminders of what happened.
When Jim worked through the specific details of that memory using Clinical EFT, something shifted.
The memory didn’t disappear.
His love for the friend he’d lost didn’t disappear.
What changed was the emotional charge attached to remembering.
After approximately 40 minutes of working with Dawson, Jim rated the intensity at a 2 out of 10 and could recount the experience without the same level of psychological triggering.
The memory was still there, but its grip on him had changed. In fact, he eventually reported feeling grateful for that fateful day!
Perhaps that’s one of the most hopeful ways to understand trauma recovery.
Healing doesn’t require erasing your past.
It doesn’t ask you to pretend something terrible wasn’t terrible.
It means helping the brain and body recognize the difference between what happened then and what is happening now.
Clinical EFT has also been studied with veterans experiencing PTSD, with research showing significant reductions in PTSD symptoms following treatment.
Jim’s experience is his own, and no healing journey follows exactly the same timeline.
But his story reminds us of something important:
Your past can remain part of your story without remaining your present.