06/17/2026
I recently saw a woman get out of her car, take off her shoes, and head over to another car like she was ready to throw down. Another time, someone shared a rude comment another person made about them, and it sparked an angry response. It's crazy how the news is packed with stories of people reacting instead of acting, and then they end up facing the fallout.
Something is always happening, and someone is always saying something. When we feel offended, our instinct is often to retaliate and get back at the other person. So, we use our own life force to punish someone else. When we do, we're wasting our energy and our time.
A lot of the time, these reactions come from our egos, inner struggles, and negative feelings. In psychology, we call this "explosive behavior disorder." Instead of working through the conflict, we end up having a huge outburst that just wears us out. We let other people control us. When we choose to engage in conflict or act in a hostile way, we're wasting our energy, time, and life.
No matter how justified we believe we are, engaging in a fight ultimately costs us energy, and sometimes our lives. Buddha teaches that preserving our energy rather than wasting it in conflict makes us stronger.
Avoid wasting your energy. Instead of reacting, getting mad, or becoming hostile, become aware of them. Where do these negative emotions originate?
Learn to relax, to meditate. Tension, anxiety, and unconscious living sap your energy. Meditation helps gather your energy naturally instead of letting it leak away.
Be creative. Whether you draw, write, sing, sew, or garden, channel your energy into something constructive rather than using it for retaliation. Why waste your energy?
A lot of people are just wasting their time and energy—don’t be one of them! Avoid getting caught up in stuff that doesn’t matter, like revenge, anger, or pointless fights. Find a daily practice that transforms you. Remember, your energy is super valuable—it’s a precious gem!
Experience Àse Yoga, where every breath counts