09/29/2026
“I’m better than you!”
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I was 29 years old here, and at that time, I believed that I was so much better than other men because of my military service. I had done something most hadn’t, during a time of war, and for reasons that were rooted in more than just what happened during the 9/11 Terror Attacks. I truly thought I was better than you! My ego was massive. It had partially been inflated by what society told me was right for me as a man.
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Then Ego died… quite a few times. I ran into more heartbreak. I got removed from communities for my actions and behaviors. I was considered dangerous, menacing, and threatening to others, especially women. Substances and I became best friends. And in the 12 years that have followed since then, I have had a fair share of breakdowns and breakthroughs. Because as I coach? A breakthrough comes right after the breakdown.
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If I could tell my younger self one thing, it’d be: trust your heart and calm your mind. You know what though? This isn’t just my story, it’s proof that you can experience your own transformation too: you can learn to find more authentically who you are and not what EGO, SOCIETY, or OTHERS think you are supposed to be! The men that I work with followed the scripts, did what they were told, and even in spite of being successful people, maybe it be through the military like myself, or through finance, tech, or some other lucrative enterprise, and yet still haven’t found the kind of fulfillment that comes from trusting themselves, their hearts, or their inspiration, especially through that of the lens of faith and belief.
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Your next chapter starts the moment you decide it does. What’s one shift you’ve experienced that changed everything? Share below and inspire someone today!
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Or, are you ready to change living someone else’s life for you and become the Captain of Your Soul? If so, maybe this is your sign! DM me “CHANGE” if you’d love to talk more about what’s best to serve you and what’s holding you back.
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