Open Space Counseling, Consulting & Wellness

Open Space Counseling, Consulting & Wellness Open Space provides inclusive LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy, wellness services, and expert-led training.

We have a few clinicians who have opened up new availability for the first time in a while, as well as a few clinicians ...
08/27/2026

We have a few clinicians who have opened up new availability for the first time in a while, as well as a few clinicians who have joined us and are now accepting new clients!

To make the scheduling process easier and faster for folks, we are temporarily including each providerโ€™s current availability in our Get Started form! This allows you to skip a step and identify your preferred day and time from the beginning, rather than waiting for our response with their availability. ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

Ready to get started? Click the link in our bio, or head to โคต๏ธ

Www.openspaceccw.com/getstarted

โœจ Check out our clinicians who are currently accepting new clients! โœจ๐Ÿข Sessions available both ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† and ๐—ถ๐—ป-๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป a...
08/19/2026

โœจ Check out our clinicians who are currently accepting new clients! โœจ

๐Ÿข Sessions available both ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† and ๐—ถ๐—ป-๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป at ๐Ÿ™ Bakery Square!

โ€‹โžก Scroll through to see what clinicians currently have openings, and learn more about their specialties.

๐Ÿ“… Ready to ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ or ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฑ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜‚๐—น๐˜? โคต

Head to:
www.openspaceccw.com/getstarted

โœจ โ€‹Lara is accepting โ€‹๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€! โœจโ€‹And currently has both daytime and ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ availability!โ€‹โžก Scroll through to learn ...
08/18/2026

โœจ โ€‹Lara is accepting โ€‹๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€! โœจ

โ€‹And currently has both daytime and ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ availability!

โ€‹โžก Scroll through to learn more about Lara's sex-informed, sex-positive approach.

๐Ÿ“… Ready to get scheduled? โคต

Click the link in our bio or head to our Get Started page below:
www.openspaceccw.com/getstarted

โœจ โ€‹๐—Ÿ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ and ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ are now scheduling โ€‹๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€! โœจโ€‹And both have ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ availability!โ€‹โžก Scroll through to learn more...
07/27/2026

โœจ โ€‹๐—Ÿ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ and ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ are now scheduling โ€‹๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€! โœจ

โ€‹And both have ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ availability!

โ€‹โžก Scroll through to learn more about Lara and Tamara, including their approaches, specialties, and accepted insurance plans.
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Additionally:

๐Ÿ”น ๐——๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ป is now in-network with Optum/United Healthcare, and has added one in-person day! (Currently has 2 evening spots left!)

๐Ÿ”น ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—š. is scheduling a small number of new therapy clients, and has in-person availability.

๐Ÿ”น ๐—๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ป is accepting new clients, and currently has evening availability. (Juan is also bilingual!)

๐Ÿ”น ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—ฆ. has availability for new clients mid-day.

๐Ÿ”น ๐——๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฒ had ONE spot open up: Mondays @ 10am (3x/month) - ๐˜›๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜๐˜ฏ-๐˜–๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฆ.

๐Ÿ“… Ready to get scheduled? โคต
Click the link in our bio or head to our Get Started page below:
www.openspaceccw.com/getstarted

The way you talk to yourself matters more than you think it does.Most of us wouldn't say the things we say to ourselves ...
07/23/2026

The way you talk to yourself matters more than you think it does.

Most of us wouldn't say the things we say to ourselves to anyone we actually cared about.

โŒ "You're so stupid."
โŒ "Why can't you just get it together."
โŒ "Everyone else has this figured out except you."

We don't usually notice this voice because it's been running in the background for so long. It feels like the truth instead of a habit. But that inner dialogue isn't neutral. It's actively shaping your nervous system, your choices, and how much of your life you're willing to show up for.

Here's what harsh self-talk actually does over time:

โžก It keeps your body in a low-grade stress response. Every internal insult registers as a threat, even though the "threat" is you. That means more cortisol, more tension, more days that feel exhausting for no clear reason.

โžก It shrinks your risk tolerance. When your inner voice is waiting to punish you for messing up, you start avoiding anything that might end in a mistake... a new opportunity, a hard conversation, a creative idea. Not because you're not capable. Because the cost of failing feels too high when you know how you'll talk to yourself afterward.

โžก It reinforces shame instead of resolving anything. Guilt says "I did something wrong." Shame says "I am something wrong." Harsh self-talk almost always lands in the second category. And shame doesn't motivate change, it motivates hiding. That's why you can be your own harshest critic and still not improve the thing you're criticizing.

โžก It rewires what you expect from other people. If this is how you talk to yourself, you often unconsciously accept it from others too. It starts to feel familiar instead of harmful.

โžก None of this makes you weak or broken. It makes you human, shaped by whatever taught you that self-criticism equals self-improvement. It doesn't. Self-compassion isn't the soft option. It's actually the one linked to more resilience, more follow-through, and faster recovery after setbacks.

โžก If this inner voice sounds familiar and you're ready to change your relationship with it, we can help. Scroll for clinicians with openings, and click the link in our bio to get started. ๐Ÿฉถ

โœจ โ€‹๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—บ (she/her) has opened her schedule for a small number of ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€! โœจ๐Ÿข Sam is seeing clients both ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ...
07/15/2026

โœจ โ€‹๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—บ (she/her) has opened her schedule for a small number of ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€! โœจ

๐Ÿข Sam is seeing clients both ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† and ๐—ถ๐—ป-๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป at ๐Ÿ™ Bakery Square!

โ€‹โžก Scroll through to learn more about Sam, her approach, and her specialties.

๐Ÿ“… Ready to ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ or ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ-๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜‚๐—น๐˜? โคต

Head to:
www.openspaceccw.com/getstarted

Social anxiety gets misunderstood a lot. People hear it and picture someone who just doesn't like parties. That's not it...
07/13/2026

Social anxiety gets misunderstood a lot. People hear it and picture someone who just doesn't like parties. That's not it.

Social anxiety is a ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฒ. It's your nervous system reading connection as danger. The racing heart before you walk into a room. Replaying a conversation for three days after. The exhaustion of performing "normal" for two hours and then needing to disappear.

And for neurodivergent folks, it's layered on top of sensory overwhelm, masking, and years of being told you're "too much" or "not reading the room right." What looks like social anxiety is sometimes a nervous system managing noise, lighting, small talk, and what's expected of you, all at once.

The goal isn't to change to fit into environments that weren't built for you. It's to understand your own nervous system well enough to work ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ถ๐˜, not against it, to whatever extent feels right for you.

A few things worth knowing:

โœจ ๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—บ. It's the story you carry in: I'll say the wrong thing. They'll see through me. For neurodivergent people, that story usually has a longer history behind it.

โœจ ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ "๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—บ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป" ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€. It keeps your focus on the anxiety. Instead, give your brain a task: find your seat, get a drink, say one sentence to one person.

โœจ ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€. Silently saying "this is anxiety, not danger" can help interrupt the spiral.

โœจ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚'๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€. Most people are focused on themselves, not you.

โœจ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜. If you're monitoring your face, tone, and eye contact all at once, some of that "anxiety" is masking fatigue. Sometimes you just need less performance and more permission to be as social as feels sustainable.

You're not broken, you're not "too sensitive," and you're not the only one sitting in the parking lot for 20 minutes before you can make yourself walk in. You just need tools that work with your actual nervous system.

๐—ฆ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€. ๐Ÿ’›

Alone time is chosen. Isolation usually isn't. That's the whole distinction, and it's why isolation is so hard to catch....
07/10/2026

Alone time is chosen. Isolation usually isn't. That's the whole distinction, and it's why isolation is so hard to catch. Nobody decides to become isolated. It happens ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜†, through circumstances, exhaustion, grief, life changes, and it builds quietly enough that by the time you notice, it already feels normal.

Alone time has a shape. You know when it starts and when it ends. Isolation doesn't have edges or parameters. It just widens and lengthens.

Alone time means tonight you wanted space. Isolation means the invitations slowed down, or the energy to accept them did, and neither one is a character flaw. It's usually just what happens when life gets heavy and connection becomes one more thing that takes effort you don't have.

Here's what makes it hard to see from the inside: ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ. It looks like being deeply tired. It looks like "I'll reach out next week." It feels like a stretch of time that just doesn't end.

And if you've always been someone who's comfortable alone, that can actually make it harder to notice. Not because something is wrong with you, but because solitude has never been a red flag for you before. So the shift doesn't feel like a shift. ๐—œ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ง๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†.

The way to tell the difference isn't by looking at how much time you're spending by yourself. It's by noticing what that time is ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด to you:

Alone time tends to leave you a little more able to face your life. Isolation tends to leave you a little more convinced that facing it alone is just easier.

Alone time still carries the quiet assumption that someone would ask where you've been. Isolation carries the quiet assumption that maybe they wouldn't, and that thought isn't a truth. It's just what isolation sounds like when it talks.

If you read this and something landed, don't sit with it alone. ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐˜…๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†. Not because it's urgent. Because it's overdue, and that one seemingly small connection can have a much bigger impact than you might think.

Most people don't collapse into a life that feels hollow. They ease into it, one deadline, one obligation, one "I'll dea...
07/08/2026

Most people don't collapse into a life that feels hollow. They ease into it, one deadline, one obligation, one "I'll deal with that later" at a time.

But somewhere between managing your life and living it, something gets lost. The joy gets smaller. The wins stop registering. You start measuring your days by what got done instead of how it felt to be in them.

You can hit every milestone. Build the career. Check every box on the list you didn't even know you were following. And still wake up one day wondering when you started watching your own life instead of being in it.

๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ป'๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—น. It's the minimum.

You can be fully alive and still be completely disconnected from your own life. Those aren't contradictions. They're both true for a lot of high-achieving people who are excellent at looking like they have it together.

And that's often what happens when you spend years in survival mode and forget to switch gears once survival isn't the only option anymore.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€. You just have to be honest with yourself that "fine" isn't the same as "full." ๐Ÿค

If you're done running on autopilot, ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚. Head to our link in bio or our Get Started page below to book your first session. โคต

www.openspaceccw.com/getstarted

โœจ โ€‹๐ƒ๐ž๐ฏ๐จ๐ง (she/her) is โ€‹๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฌ๐œ๐ก๐ž๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  new clients! โœจโ€‹๐ผ๐‘›๐‘๐‘™๐‘ข๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘–๐‘™๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘ฆ!โ€‹โžก Scroll through to learn more abou...
06/30/2026

โœจ โ€‹๐ƒ๐ž๐ฏ๐จ๐ง (she/her) is โ€‹๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฌ๐œ๐ก๐ž๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  new clients! โœจ

โ€‹๐ผ๐‘›๐‘๐‘™๐‘ข๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘–๐‘™๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘ฆ!

โ€‹โžก Scroll through to learn more about Devon, her approach, and her specialties.

๐Ÿ“‹ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐€๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐ž๐:
Aetna, Anthem, BCBS PPO Plans, Capital Blue Cross, Geisinger, Highmark, and Independence Blue Cross (IBX) PPO Plans. (Optum/UHC and UPMC are in progress!)

๐Ÿ“… ๐–๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐จ๐ง โ€‹๐ƒ๐ž๐ฏ๐จ๐ง'๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐œ๐ก๐ž๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ž? โคต
โžก Click the link in our bio or head to:
www.openspaceccw.com/getstarted

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