10/12/2026
The other night, I walked into my kitchen, looked at the mess, and thought, “However imperfectly.”
It was late, I was tired, and I hadn’t gotten around to cleaning it up.
But instead of beating myself up about everything I hadn’t done that day, I felt a little relief.
We’ve been incorporating Charlotte Mason’s philosophy into our homeschool for the past four years, and however imperfectly is a phrase I’ve come back to again and again.
In her book School Education, Charlotte Mason encourages us to keep making the effort, however imperfectly, recognizing that even small efforts can have meaningful results.
I’ve thought about those words often in our homeschooling, particularly in the context of Charlotte Mason’s emphasis on the science of relations and living ideas in education.
But that night, standing in my messy kitchen, I was reminded how much that applies to the rest of life, too.
There are so many things I care deeply about doing well.
Being intentional with my children. Caring for my family. Taking care of our home. Making good choices for our health.
And I don’t always do those things as well as I’d like.
Sometimes the kitchen is still a mess at the end of the day.
Sometimes the healthy habits I intended to prioritize don’t happen.
But that doesn’t mean those things aren’t important to me. And it doesn’t mean I should stop trying.
I’ve been thinking about how much this applies to health, too.
We don’t have to get everything right to make choices that support our health.
The small things we do matter, even when we aren’t as consistent as we’d like to be.
And we can keep moving forward without beating ourselves up along the way.
However imperfectly. 💛