08/05/2026
One certain constant in all life is struggle. That is why it’s almost 100% valid that we exist to help and serve God through the same for others. It is also highly likely that the first step in doing so is to loosen our attachment to expectations. Especially in the form of judgement.
Unfortunately our attachment to self preservation impulsively causes the breakdown of others. It is through this learned filter that we block our instinctive nature to love others as God loves us. 
Often we forget about the poor choices, “unfair challenges”, trials and tribulations of our own lives as we stare down our noses at others. Understandably, but falsely, this catapults our self worth. But only momentarily. This way of thinking is ultimately not sustainable.
No wonder pride is the number one preventative of asking for help from others. I needed to remind myself of this today. Fortunately, I am surrounded by people who understand this selfless concept. If you are reading this you are most likely one of them. Thank you for being in my life. ❤️🧎🏻🙏🏻
EXPECTATIONS
"My serenity is inversely proportional to my expectations. The higher my expectations of other people are, the lower is my serenity. I can watch my serenity level rise when I discard my expectations.”
Alcoholics Anonymous,
p. 452