05/28/2026
According to Sebastian Ocklenburg, Ph.D. new research published in March 2026 investigated the gender friendship gap using data from nearly 1,800 participants. The findings? On average, men still report feeling less emotionally close to their best friends than women do.
But here's where it gets interesting. The gap wasn't the same across all groups. Black men and women showed no difference in friendship closeness. The largest gap was found among White participants, with White men reporting the lowest levels of emotional closeness, especially when their best friend was also a male and they had high socioeconomic status.
Both men and women in the study talked to their best friends frequently (about 18-20 days per month). So connection is happening. But the quality of emotional closeness varies.
These findings remind us that friendship matters for mental health. And for some groups, there may be particular barriers to vulnerable connection.
Read the full Psychology Today summary at https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-asymmetric-brain/202603/new-insights-on-the-gender-friendship-gap π