10/26/2026
Why does it take me 20 minutes to p**p?
You sit down because you feel the urge… so why are you STILL there twenty minutes later?
A bowel movement shouldn’t feel like a part-time job.
Spending a long time on the toilet can happen for different reasons:
💩 Hard, dry stool that’s difficult to pass.
💩 Pelvic floor muscles that aren’t relaxing and coordinating when you push.
💩 A feeling of incomplete emptying that keeps you sitting and trying.
💩 Scrolling on your phone while waiting for something to happen.
And yes—you can p**p every day and still struggle with constipation.
Try putting your phone away, resting your feet on a small footstool, leaning forward slightly, and breathing gently instead of holding your breath and pushing harder.
If nothing happens after a few minutes, get up and try again when you have a clear urge. More time and more straining aren’t necessarily the answer.
If this keeps happening—especially when your stool is already soft—ask your healthcare provider about pelvic floor dysfunction. Adding more fiber may not address the problem.
Getting older doesn’t mean you have to accept twenty-minute bathroom struggles as your new normal.
📖 My book, The Constipation Code, explores eight hidden factors that can contribute to constipation and helps you understand what deserves a closer look.
Find it at theconstipationcode.com or on Amazon