09/17/2026
✨ Motherhood Changed Me: Part One is now live ✨
“I Miss the Naivety: Infertility, Pregnancy Loss, and the Motherhood Identity Shift” 💛
There was a version of me before infertility, pregnancy loss, medical trauma, and motherhood who believed family planning would be simple, my body would always feel like home, and life could mostly be controlled with enough preparation.
I miss her sometimes.
But I also recognize that grief, matrescence, motherhood, and everything my body has endured have changed me in ways I am still learning to understand.
In Part One of this 3-part series, I’m sharing more about:
💛 infertility and pregnancy loss
💛 losing trust in my body
💛 grief and identity changes
💛 matrescence and becoming someone new
💛 the parts of myself I miss
💛 and the strength I found along the way
This one is personal. Very personal. And I hope it helps someone else feel a little less alone in the question:
“Who am I now?”
You do not have to rush back to who you were before. Sometimes healing is also learning to meet who you are becoming. 🌿
📖 Read Part One now at othcounseling.org