08/26/2026
I remember the first time I heard the words:
"Well, maybe if you did more around here..."
Funny how homemaking only becomes “doing nothing” when you’re doing it for your own family.
Cook for strangers and it’s a career.
Clean someone else’s building and it’s a job.
Care for someone else’s children and it’s childcare.
But cook the meals, wash the clothes, raise the babies, keep the house running and make a home for your own husband and children and suddenly people want to know what you “do all day.”
I’m not against women working. This isn’t working women vs. stay-at-home women.
I just think it’s strange that we understand these things have value everywhere except inside our own homes.
A paycheck determines whether you’re employed.
It doesn’t determine whether your work matters.
And I’ll never apologize for believing there is tremendous value in taking care of the people I love most.
Do you think homemaking gets the respect it deserves?