05/12/2026
You know the feeling…
Someone pulls away → you overthink.
Someone gets close → you shut down.
And part of you thinks, “Why do I keep repeating this?”
This isn’t you being “too needy” or “bad at relationships.”
It’s often your attachment style in relationships showing up.
Anxious, avoidant, or somewhere in between, these patterns aren’t random. They’re emotional survival strategies your nervous system learned early on.
And here’s the part most people miss:
👉 Awareness alone doesn’t change the pattern.
In my latest blog, I break down:
• why these cycles repeat
• what’s really happening underneath them
• and how real change actually begins in relationships (not just insight)
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same relationship loop, this will make things click.
👉 Read here:
https://jessicasenickmsw.com/attachment-style-in-relationships-explained/