11/18/2022
✦ Food Pushers ✦
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✦ Holidays can be synonymous with overeating or eating to discomfort - making it a triggering time for those with a strained relationship with food. It. It can be a challenge when you are trying to develop a balanced approach towards food and not overeat just for the sake of it. What can add to this stress is the dreaded “Food Pusher.”
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✦ A Food Pusher is someone who tries to pressure you to eat a certain kind of food or more food. Food pushers are not inherently bad, there are lots of reasons why someone tries to force food onto others. The thing to focus on is how to deal with the Food Pushers in your life during the Holiday season.
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✦ There are a few different approaches you can take when saying “no” to the food pusher in your life:
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✔️ Repeat yourself: Chances are you are going to need to say “no” more than once to a food pusher, don’t be afraid to be a broken record.
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✔️ Change the subject: After saying “no,” follow up with a question or a new topic to divert the conversation away from food.
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✔️Keep it positive: Don’t say anything negative about the food they are trying to push on to you. You can compliment the food without eating it.
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✔️ Be Honest: If someone keeps pushing food on to you, it’s okay to be direct and honest about your health goals.
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✦ To help you feel more prepared to deal with a Food Pusher at the holidays, it can be helpful to practice what you are going to say and to remind yourself that it’s okay to set these boundaries and advocate for them. The more you practice, the more empowered you will feel to say “no” to the Food Pusher in your life!
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