Velma Matthew memorial

Velma Matthew memorial This page is for friends, family, former students, and former theater castmates to share their memories of Velma.

We had a stowaway on the dive boat yesterday! This little guy rode with us on the boat from Klein Bonaire, where we did ...
06/20/2024

We had a stowaway on the dive boat yesterday! This little guy rode with us on the boat from Klein Bonaire, where we did our first dive, to our second dive site, and then almost to our resort. He took off after we were closer to land again, about five minutes before our boat docked at the resort marina.

This is Velma and Harold's daughter Jan Matthew Tamanini posting. For anyone who wasn't aware, Velma's husband Harold Ma...
07/23/2023

This is Velma and Harold's daughter Jan Matthew Tamanini posting. For anyone who wasn't aware, Velma's husband Harold Matthew passed away on June 27, 2023, ten days before his 97th birthday. We're holding a celebration of his life at St. Daniel's Lutheran Church in Robesonia PA on Sunday August 13th.

There will be a reception after the service, with details announced at the church. If you are interested in attending, please respond in the comments here. I'll also create an event on my personal page (Jan Matthew Tamanini) where you may also respond.

Dad's obituary is viewable here:

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The woman who was responsible for Velma's death in May 2019 was sentenced today to six to 23 months in county jail plus ...
10/04/2021

The woman who was responsible for Velma's death in May 2019 was sentenced today to six to 23 months in county jail plus five years probation, fines, 150 hours of community service after release, and a permanent bar from providing care as a CNA for any facilities or private parties (not sure if that last part will be enforceable, but she'll be on the PA Department of Health's list of people whom providers receiving any type of government funding are prohibited from hiring, so that's worth something).

Her husband Harold and daughter Jan both provided victim impact statements to the judge before the hearing, and Jan spoke briefly this morning at the hearing to emphasize that the woman should never again be allowed to care for anyone.

Through the whole process from its start two years ago to now, the Lower Paxton Township detective who opened the original investigation and the two investigators from the Attorney General's Dependent Care Abuse and Neglect team were wonderful, and the Deputy Attorney General prosecuting was top-notch.

So many things happen in facilities that never get reported, or never rise to the level of a full-scale investigation. We were extremely lucky that this team was dedicated to getting some measure of justice for Velma. It doesn't take away the horror of what happened, but it will help us to heal.

08/02/2021

I watched this morning in Dauphin County criminal court as the woman responsible for my mom‘s death at her nursing home in May 2019 pled guilty to one count of involuntary manslaughter and one count of neglect of a care-dependent person for two cases: my mom‘s, and another patient whose leg she broke one week after she rolled my mom onto the concrete floor face first. Yes, that’s right: the nursing home did absolutely nothing with her after what happened with my mom until about a week later when she broke another patient’s leg moving him out of a wheelchair by herself - and failed to report what happened. The home discovered it the next day and apparently felt that, while what happened with my mom wasn’t worth any disciplinary action, two awful incidents were enough to terminate her.

Sentencing is set for October 4th. I will be there.

04/20/2021

Sharing an update on the criminal case against the woman responsible for my mother's death: the trial will start in May, with jury selection in mid-month. The Deputy Attorney General who's prosecuting gave me the news at the end of March and asked if I would testify.

Of course I said yes. It will hard, but I want to do it for both my mom and my dad. The jury needs to know what losing her in such a horrific way has done to him.

There's a slight chance there could be a plea (meaning no trial), but the defendant seems to think she should avoid any jail time, and that's not something the AG will approve. I honestly don't care as much about jail time for her as I want to be sure she is NEVER AGAIN allowed to be in a position to work with dependent patients - EVER.

It will be a combined trial, because about a week after she killed my mom (which the nursing home said was an "accident" and imposed no discipline as a result), she broke another patient's leg trying to move him from his wheelchair to his bed by herself. So she's charged for both incidents. After the second one, she was fired. Too late, unfortunately, for that other patient.

I'll update when things get underway. Thanks for all of your support these last two years since Mom's death. We appreciate it more than you can know.

This is a difficult post to write, but it's something I want to do – especially if it can prevent anyone else from exper...
04/28/2020

This is a difficult post to write, but it's something I want to do – especially if it can prevent anyone else from experiencing what our family has gone through for the past eleven months. Long and detailed, but if you want to come along for the ride, buckle up.

First, I want to THANK PROFUSELY the unknown person who recognized this woman from her Crimewatch photo that LPPD posted yesterday (below) and reported her whereabouts.

As most of you know, I lost my mother, Velma Matthew at the end of May last year to an awful incident at her nursing home (in a cruel irony, on the evening of the day Richard Wilhelm paid a beautiful tribute to her in his remarks at the Penn-Bernville alumni luncheon, a tribute that he repeated at Mom‘s memorial service). The CNA caring for her rolled her off of her bed at height, and because she was completely incapacitated, she had no way to break her fall, and she landed on the concrete floor on her face, shattering her bones and losing several teeth. She died four days later in Hershey Medical Center.

There's been a continuing investigation into her death since early June, thanks to an evidence officer and a detective from the Lower Paxton Township Police who opened the case on his own initiative. That investigation almost immediately transferred to the PA Attorney General's Dependent Care Abuse and Neglect unit, because that unit specializes in investigating nursing home incidents (they brought in the LPPD detective to assist).

The investigators have been working tirelessly for ten months, and Monday they presented a complaint to a Magisterial District Judge, who issued an arrest warrant. The charges in my mother's case were one felony (neglect of care-dependent person – reckless endangerment resulting in death), one first-degree misdemeanor (involuntary manslaughter), and a second-degree misdemeanor (neglect of care-dependent person – reckless endangerment). There was an additional warrant for injuries to another resident of the same nursing home only a week after my mother's incident (that resident survived with a broken leg).

This afternoon, the AG's forensic nurse on the team called to tell me that, as a result of an anonymous tip from someone who saw the LPPD's Crimewatch post yesterday, they found the CNA and arrested her today (she had been dodging the authorities for a week). She was working at a subacute care facility in Mechanicsburg - !!

She's been arraigned, and she's currently residing in Dauphin County Prison in lieu of $60K bail ($50K for my mother's case, $10K for the other matter). She could have avoided prison by turning herself in, but she chose not to do that.

This is by no means over, and with the current Covid situation it could be June before there's even a preliminary hearing. But she's in custody and, at least for now, she can't hurt anyone else – hopefully ever again.

This almost didn't go anywhere. I had contacted LPPD the day after the incident to ask them to investigate, but the officer who went to the nursing home reported there was nothing amiss, despite information I gave him about some questionable/inconsistent things the RN nursing home contact had said to me about what happened.

The ONLY reason this went anywhere was that the evidence officer at LPPD happened to be reading the coroner's report a week after Mom died when the detective who started the investigation walked in and saw the evidence officer had a puzzled look on his face. The detective asked what was up. The evidence officer said something like, “Something here just doesn't add up” - and from there, the detective took it upon himself to dig into the events that led to Mom's death.

So this is all a long-winded way of saying: if you have a loved one in care, and there's an incident that seems “off” - don't let it go! Rattle some chains. Speak up. Keep after it. Had these two men at LPPD not started the investigation, this woman likely would STILL be working with dependent adults. I'm beyond grateful that she's out of that now.

12/31/2019

I thought I posted this at the time of Mom's memorial service, but apparently not. So here's the slideshow retrospective of her life that I put together for the service. Hope those of you who knew her will find some new things. Velma's grandson Joe wrote and performed the accompanying music.

Found this today from a friend - I had seen other versions of this Billy Porter gem commercial break in last Sunday's To...
06/14/2019

Found this today from a friend - I had seen other versions of this Billy Porter gem commercial break in last Sunday's Tony Awards. Why post it here? Because, among her many theatrical roles in the Reading area, Velma (my mom) played Mama Rose in Gypsy around 1972. She would have LOVED Billy's take on the number!

James Corden is back in the studio, fresh off hosting the 2019 Tony Awards the night before, and felt compelled to share a special moment during a commercial...

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