James Christensen LMFT

08/24/2026

Is daily s*x a biological necessity or just an unrealistic expectation? This insightful debate challenges common relationship perspectives on intimacy.

07/23/2026

07/23/2026

Words are not the solution.

Changing your behavior is the solution.

I've never seen a relationship improved by words.

07/22/2026

Most couples do not fail because they lack love. They fail because they cannot stay regulated during conflict.

07/22/2026

Reality is not sufficiently validating to a narcissistic person. That's why they get so good at distorting it.

07/22/2026

When you treat someone with respect it makes it easier for them to believe that they are someone who deserves respect.

07/21/2026

Communication doesn't change anything. Behavioural change changes everything.

07/21/2026

A man who loves himself will also love you.
A man who accepts himself will also accept you just the way you are.
A man who respects himself will also respect you.
A man who cares about himself will also care about you.

07/21/2026

Victim culture will tell you that you don't have power.
Victim culture will tell you, you don't have a choice.
Victim culture would tell you your partner has all the power and you have none.
Victim culture will tell you, you just have to find someone who treats you better.
Victim culture would tell you your responses are justified by your partner's behavior
Victim culture will tell you, you can't do anything to make your relationship better.
Victim culture is wrong.

07/20/2026

They collect people they can manipulate and reject those they can't.

In this case, getting rejected is actually a compliment.