Relational Life Counseling

04/22/2026

Ever freeze up when your partner wants to talk? You’re not alone. In my latest blog post I unpack why shutting down happens, what’s really going on underneath, and simple ways to start feeling safer in conversations. Read more: https://wix.to/q1Y4XF8

IntroductionIf you’ve ever wondered why you shut down in arguments, you’re not alone…Let me take a guess at how this goes: Your partner wants to talk about something. Not next week. Not when things are calm. Right now. And almost immediately, you feel it.That pressure. 'Here we go!' That sense...

04/22/2026

Ever start a conversation with your partner and watch them withdraw? It’s painful, confusing, and all too common. Our latest blog breaks down why people shut down, what’s happening underneath the surface, and practical steps you can take to reconnect—without escalating the fight. Read more: https://wix.to/GAeSeov

If you’ve ever wondered why your partner shuts down when you try to talk, you’re not alone. Let me guess how this goes.You try to bring something up with your partner—something that actually matters to you. And within a few minutes, things start going sideways (sigh). You get more intense. The...

12/09/2025

Most of us experience reactions in our relationships that we don't fully understand. But did you know these are often tied to our attachment styles? Join us in exploring the depths of attachment and how it impacts our connections. Read more: https://wix.to/AOobf0f

Most of us move through our relationships believing that our reactions are just… our reactions.“I just get anxious.”“I don’t like conflict.”“I hate being vulnerable.”“I need space.”But underneath all of those behaviors is something deeply human, wired into us long before we learn...

09/09/2025

Let’s discuss an important topic: intimacy in relationships! Many couples find themselves saying, 'We’re not having s*x enough.' Dive deeper into this conversation and understand how counseling can help. Read more at https://wix.to/qhmhphp

When couples come to counseling, the conversation almost always lands here eventually: “We’re not having s*x enough.” “We’re not having s*x the way I want to.” "Why don't I want to have s*x with my partner?" “Why do we see this part of our relationship so differently?”And here’s th...

08/13/2025

Feeling misunderstood in your relationship? Discover what's really going on with your partner in our latest blog post! Read more: https://wix.to/GHDNXSy

07/29/2025

Ever wondered what makes couples thrive in therapy? Explore the keys to successful relationships in our latest post! Read more: https://wix.to/AksEeop

Intro:Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of sitting with couples in all kinds of emotional spaces—hurting, hopeful, angry, disconnected, and sometimes holding on by a thread.One question I hear often is: “Do couples like us really get better?”The answer? Yes.Not because they never argue,...

07/14/2025

Are you really listening to your partner? This article dives into the power of loving listening. It can change your relationship! Read more: https://wix.to/hZTk8c3

06/27/2025

Emotional safety is an essential aspect of love that often goes unnoticed. Our latest blog post explores this vital topic and how it can impact your relationships. Read more here: https://wix.to/IWJPhXy

06/11/2025

It’s easy to label someone as needy, but what's the alternative? Do you want a partner who doesn’t care? Explore the real reasons behind neediness and how to navigate it in your relationship. Read more here: https://wix.to/93o3eqc

It sure is easy to label someone as 'needy', but let me ask you this! What's the alternative? Do you want a partner who doesn't care about being a relationship with you? I want a partner who absolutely LOVES our marriage. *I* want to love our marriage. Are we sure we want to pathologize that? I say,...

05/29/2025

What really holds a relationship together? Dive into our latest blog post to explore the power of emotional connections in love. Discover insights that can change your relationship dynamics. Read more here: https://wix.to/FNPbFGW

05/23/2025

Every couple fights, but not every couple grows from those fights. In our new blog, we explore how arguments can actually lead to a stronger connection. Check it out: https://wix.to/iM6fRLz

YES! It's true that all couples fight, but some couples fight more than others, and not all couples grow from their conflicts. Beneath anger and frustration are deeper and softer emotions like hurt, fear, and longing.Consider Emily and Rubin (I just made up those names because I can't be throwing re...