The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC

09/08/2026

Have you subscribed to my podcast yet? Find it on your favorite podcast service by searching UnMuted Love with Ce Eshelman or listen here: www.lovemattersparenting.com/podcast

09/07/2026

I was shocked to learn that 9 of 10 kids are missing this - and our kids from difficult beginnings may be missing even more. You can't miss this week's conversation with Stephanie Culler on UnMuted Love!

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09/06/2026

If you're having trouble now with your adopted child, don't just hope that it will get better because it Won't! It will get worse Unless you take action now to transform your relationship with your child, build more confidence in your parenting, be certain that you are doing the right thing to create a safe home for your family.

09/05/2026

At the Attach Place, we believe that Love Matters in every relationship. We practice therapy that way, too. We welcome individuals, couples, children, teens, and families. Contact us today. https://attachplace.com/

09/01/2026

Ever wondered how to deal with your child's challenging behaviors with compassion? Dive into UnMuted Love podcast for expert tips. Click www.lovemattersparenting.com/podcast to read more! Better yet, subscribe on Apple Music, Spotify, Youtube Music, Amazon Music or iHeartRadio.

08/31/2026

Am I wrong about attachment? Jen Lumanlan thinks I might be. She's my special guest on this week's UnMuted Love!

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08/29/2026

Change the toxic stress that may be poisoning your family life with a Self-care Regimen for yourself and a daily Felt Safety diet for your child. This is what we do in the Attach Place. Contact us today https://attachplace.com/
Felt Safety Diet:
1. First and foremost: Well regulated parents who have an established Self-care Regimen.
2. A slow pace. Pretend you live in a small sleepy town where no one feels the need to speed. Then, don't speed, rush, hustle, bustle, race, multi-task, or try to live three lives at once.
3. Attune to your child's needs for connection, engagement, attention, playfulness. Play with your children. Watching them play is not the same thing.
4. Lose the concept of punishment and consequences. Use structure and gentle correction instead. If you use punishment and consequences, your child will fear you while continuing to do the things you don't want them to do.
5. Set the behavior bar low, so your child is successful. Praise like crazy for achieving it. Setting the bar too high will cause behavior like giving up, throwing in the towel, defiance, opposition, or not even trying.
6. Accept your child for who they are, rather than for whom you wish they were. This is a big one. Stop working so hard to make them different. Imagine someone doing that to you every day, all day.
7. Never forget that your child probably has some kind of sensory integration issue because children from difficult beginnings usually do. Give them a steady schedule (every two hours) of physicality, healthy food/snacks and big hydration.
8. Finally, work to insure your child's school is trauma informed, so your child isn't inadvertently emotionally harmed.