06/10/2026
Grief has a strange way of working. đź’›
Sometimes, feeling worse doesn’t mean you’re moving backward. It can mean you’re finally allowing yourself to feel what your mind and body have been protecting you from.
Grief isn’t a straight line. It comes in waves. It changes shape. It surprises you on ordinary Tuesdays and in the middle of grocery store aisles.
One of the only experiences where feeling more sadness, more tears, or more longing can actually be part of healing is grief. Those emotions aren’t evidence that you’re stuck—they’re evidence that your love mattered.
You don’t have to rush through it, make sense of it, or “be over it” by a certain date.
Healing doesn’t happen by avoiding grief. It often happens by gently making room for it.
💛 If today feels heavier than yesterday, that doesn’t mean you’re failing. It may simply mean your heart is doing the difficult work of healing.