Dr. Heather Sexton

06/10/2026

06/05/2026

Kleinplatz reframes the question.

Not why doesn't my client want s*x. But: is the s*x they're having worth wanting?

The research on optimal s*xual experience changes treatment plans. The work isn't to manufacture desire. It's to build the conditions desire responds to.

*xtherapy *x *xology

06/03/2026

05/18/2026

Love and desire don't behave the same way.

Love shrinks distance. Desire is energized by it. Couples who expect both to follow the same trajectory get blindsided when the relationship deepens and the eroticism narrows.

*xtherapy *xology

05/13/2026

Many people want to initiate s*x more often, or they want their partners to initiate more often. Here are four ways to make s*xual initiation easier.

05/10/2026

Ten voices from the real world of parenthood and childhood — because reality, as we all know, is far more complex and rich than anything on a greeting card.

05/07/2026

05/05/2026

The relationships that stay close over decades are not the ones that have the fewest problems. They are the ones that surface problems while they are still small.

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05/03/2026

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