Kami Orange Boundary Coach

Kami Orange Boundary Coach Boundary Coach & Author of SAY THE THING
Fat, Queer, Autistic, Plant Parent🌵 Kami Orange, Boundary Coach. Fat, Queer, Autistic, Plant Parent.

06/09/2026

Here is how to go back later and say the thing:

Remind them what happened.
Acknowledge that you didn’t say anything in the moment.
Express how you’re feeling.
Ask for what you want.

The Remind, Acknowledge, Express, Ask Script is chapter six in my boundary book Say The Thing if you’re looking for more examples. Published by Hay House, it is available in ebook, audiobook, and paperback wherever books are sold.🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is removing a pothos house plant from a pot and loosening the soil. She is a fat white woman with short sandy hair wearing maroon overalls and an orange tank top. There is a small pile of potting soil on the table in front of her and glimpses of the kitchen behind her.

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06/08/2026

A script to go back later if you didn’t say the thing in the moment.

Remind, Acknowledge, Express, Ask is chapter six in my boundary book Say The Thing.

Remind them what happened.
Acknowledge that you didn’t say anything in the moment.
Express how you’re feeling.
Ask for what you need.

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is a fat white woman with short sandy hair wearing coral overalls. She has a pink mask on her face and clear protective eyewear because she is sanding patches on a white interior wall. Moving up and down a step ladder and occasionally stepping back to inspect her progress, she doesn’t look at the camera while the voiceover plays.

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06/05/2026

I received a handmade gift from an Instagram follower. Isn’t this just so cute?!

Thank you so much Ani Sirois for my oranges.

When I chose my name “Kami Orange” in 2016, I had a vision of receiving orange fruit and orange color items someday. And here you are making that dream come true! 🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is a fat white woman with short sandy hair wearing bright orange, red, and pink floral overalls. She is sitting on the floor with her messy bed behind her and speaking directly to the camera while opening an orange shipping package. Out comes a small soft orange knitted fruit, a note that Kami holds up and reads from, and a large orange knitted fruit. The larger fruit has a green stem and is held up in size comparison of Kami’s head because it’s so large. Kami has a sparkling gleam in her eyes and a big smile on her face.

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06/04/2026

When they ignore your boundaries, it’s time to leave.

That might be leaving the conversation, the room, or (in extreme cases) the relationship.

For more boundary phrases, I wrote a whole book of them called SAY THE THING. Published by Hay House, it is available in ebook, audiobook, and paperback wherever books are sold.🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is a fat white woman with short sandy hair wearing an orange tank top and blue denim overalls. She is speaking away from the camera to the right and then the left as if to other people in the room. Behind her is a bookshelf with houseplants across the top and vines climbing up the wall.

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06/03/2026

Four ways respond if your family member says “Stop overreacting! It’s not that bad!”

One.
You can choose not to believe me but that doesn’t change the truth of what happened.

Two.
Why is it easier for you to believe I’m overreacting than for you to believe something truly terrible has occurred?

Three.
This is a proportionate reaction to what happened.

Four.
Yikes! What I’m hearing you say is that you are not a safe person to talk about this topic with. Is that what you meant to communicate?

For more boundary phrases, I wrote a whole book of them called SAY THE THING. Published by Hay House, it is available in ebook, audiobook, and paperback wherever books are sold.

And if you have gotten my book, THANK YOU! Please review it wherever you can so more people can find my work. Today I have 38 reviews and 229 ratings on Goodreads and I’d love it to be 50 reviews and 300 ratings.🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
The focus is the barrel planter full of marigold plants that have gotten too many leaves instead of blooms. Kami is leaning in from the left, sitting slightly off screen, and trimming the dead leaves with garden clippers. She is wearing an orange shirt, leopard print shorts, and orange Crocs. As her arms rotate to keep trimming, visible is her green garden gloves and the mushroom train tattoo on her left inner arm. She doesn’t ever look at the camera.

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06/02/2026

If they say, “Stop overreacting!” here are four responses.

One.
You can choose not to believe me but that doesn’t change the truth of what happened.

Two.
Why is it easier for you to believe I’m overreacting than for you to believe something truly terrible has occurred?

Three.
This is a proportionate reaction to what happened.

Four.
Yikes! What I’m hearing you say is that you are not a safe person to talk about this topic with. Is that what you meant to communicate?

For more boundary phrases, I wrote a whole book of them called SAY THE THING. Published by Hay House, it is available in ebook, audiobook, and paperback wherever books are sold.

And if you have gotten my book, THANK YOU! Please review it wherever you can so more people can find my work. Today I have 38 reviews and 228 ratings on Goodreads and I’d love it to be 50 reviews and 300 ratings.🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is trimming plants in her backyard and not looking at the camera. The sky is blue with the sun brightly shining so she is covering her head with a white floppy brim hat and her hands with green gardening gloves. She picks up a leaf, inspects it, grabs another leaf, trims it, and continues repeating the process.

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06/01/2026

If they sarcastically say, “I’m sorry your feelings were hurt!” here are four responses.

One.
Don’t apologize if you don’t mean it!

Two.
I don’t want your sarcasm. When you’re ready to have a real conversation, let me know.

Three.
I know it’s hard to hear what you did hurt me. I hope we can both put this behind us.

Four.
I’m sorry you hurt my feelings too! What you did and how you’re acting right now is really damaging to our relationship!

For more boundary phrases, I wrote a whole book of them called SAY THE THING. Published by Hay House, it is available in ebook, audiobook, and paperback wherever books are sold.🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is a fat white woman with sandy hair wearing a pink tank top and pink shorts. She’s sitting cross legged on the porch in front of her house playing with her house plant. While the voiceover speaks, she is looking at the spider plant offshoots, trimming them off the mother plant, removing more offshoots from the root base, and overall having a great time with a smile on her face.

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05/29/2026

If they don’t care when I’m uncomfortable, that’s good information to know.

With that information I can make different decisions about how often and in what ways I’m willing to be around them. I prioritize my relationships with people who care if I’m comfortable or uncomfortable and vice versa.

This is a repost from October 2022. I’m packing my house to move so instead of filming new videos, I’m resharing from the Kami Orange Archives!

I’m a boundary coach and if you like this type of content, you will probably also enjoy my boundary phrase book SAY THE THING. Published by Hay House, it is available in ebook, audiobook, and paperback wherever books are sold.🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is a fat white woman with a brown-blonde short hair wearing a white tank top. She is sitting indoors against a wooden slat wall. She is facing right when speaking as character one and then facing left when speaking as character two.

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05/28/2026

Five responses to overly personal questions.

I’m responding to a comment that says:
“I really hope you do one for fertility. I keep getting asked about when I will have another baby but I might not be able to have one.”

This is a repost from October 2022. I’m packing my house to move so instead of filming new videos, I’m resharing from the Kami Orange Archives!

I’m a boundary coach and if you like this type of content, you will probably also enjoy my boundary phrase book SAY THE THING. Published by Hay House, it is available in ebook, audiobook, and paperback wherever books are sold.🧡

Visual Description Written by Kami:
Kami is a fat white woman with a brown-blonde short hair wearing a white tank top. She is sitting indoors speaking directly to the camera and holding up a number of fingers to correspond with the number of phrase.

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