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The Sorbes, Winthrop Street, Saint Paul, MN (2026)

07/27/2026

If Gehgeh did break your relationship, don’t blame him… blame yourself instead. Here is why…

I’ve seen many people insvlting Gehgeh cos his advice “destr0yed” their relationships.

To me, that's a lack of accountability cos nobody can destr0y your relationship with advice alone.

You gave that advice permission to destr0y your relationship ya dear.

Think about it.

Someone you’ve never met stands behind a camera, dressed like a comedian and gives general advice to millions of people from different backgrounds, cultures, personalities, values and relationship stages.

You watch one or two videos, ignore your partner’s uniqueness, ignore your own circumstances and begin applying those words as if they were commandments.

Then everything falls apart.

Whose fault is that?

The person who spoke to millions…

Or the person who refused to think?

One of the biggest mistakes people make is looking for relationship advice that agrees with their emotions instead of advice that challenges them to become better.

That’s why t0xic advice trends faster than healthy advice. That's why Gehgeh trends more than Mr. Sorbe and other educators.

If someone tells you: “Don’t tolerate n0nsense.” “if they do this or that, leave immediately.” “Never apologize first.” “Always choose yourself, you are the pr!ce.”

It sounds powerful and motivational.

But relationships are not built on catchy one liners or motivational quotes. They are built on communication, s△crifice, wisdom, accountability, patience and understanding.

The internet rewards confidence, not necessarily competence. If I have the confidence to come out and say n0nsense, I will be the next sensation on the media.

The only reason why I am not doing that is cos I have a different motivation.

The popular voice is not always the wisest voice.

As a relationship and marriage therapist, I can tell you that every couple is different. What saves one relationship may destr0y another. That is why personalized counseling exists.

Counseling and advise is not the same thing. I did explain that before.

Before you take anybody’s advice, ask yourself:

Does this advice build my relationship or only feed my ego?

Stop following people simply cos they are trending.

Some people are good at creating content but po0r at building healthy relationships.

Your relationship deserves more than viral opinions.

It deserves wisdom.

Don’t outsource your thinking. Trends can entertain you, but only wisdom can sustain a healthy relationship and that is what I bring to the table.

Wisdom is paramount.

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I remain your trusted relationship coach and marriage therapist, Mr. Sorbe - The Wisdom Bank.

For pr!vate counseling and consultations, feel free to reach out to me on Messenger.

07/26/2026

When I was still single, a brother of mine who came to me several times for counsel made a statement one day that changed everything.

He visited that day just after I had finished a counseling session with one of my clients.

While he was seated, my phone rang.

He picked it up to give me, then realized it was a MoMo alert instead.

He said, “Wow! It’s been long since I received a MoMo alert.”

I told him it was from the client I had just finished talking to.

He immediately exclaimed that he could never pay someone to counsel him, talk less of someone who wasn’t married.

I wasn’t surprised cos I had heard that from other people before, and it didn’t bother me.

After all, I’m not the one with the relationship problem. I don’t mind keeping my knowledge to myself.

What concerned me, however, was that this was the same guy who would come to me almost every time with his relationship issues, hoping I would tell him what to do.

From that day, whenever he came with his problems, I only listened and said nothing.

When he asked me to advise him, I simply told him he needed to pay.

Fast forward…

Geh Geh stunned social media with relationship advice. 😂

This guy didn’t let me rest. Every day it was, “Geh Geh said…”

I told him that while some of the things Geh Geh says are true, I don’t agree with a lot of his teachings.

He didn’t listen, he told me Geh Geh is his mentor.

He chose to follow Geh Geh, not cos Geh Geh was married or professionally trained, but cos he was trending.

Eventually, he lost his relationship.

Following those teachings made him become so self centered that, till today, he has not been able to build anything solid for himself.

Right now, I wonder how he feels seeing that the same man whose advice he defended so passionately is now married.

The same man who made a video saying “If you ever see me married, know that the woman used juju on me”

It turns out that even Geh Geh is not practicing everything he used to preach. Perhaps, juju jas been used on him😆

In case you might think it is just content, know that even if Geh Geh is not married, even if it is content, he will still marry some day.

I’ve always believed that ignorance is the result of ignoring knowledge.

There’s a lot that I share here for free, yet many people are only interested in whatever is trending.

As I write this, there are countless trends all over social media, and they seem to get everybody’s attention.

Meanwhile, my posts on the series “You will marry right if…” struggle with engagement simply cos I’m not talking about the latest n0nsense on the internet.

If I make a post about le@ked s3x t△pes right now, people who claim they don’t read long posts will suddenly have the patience to read everything… and some will even ask me for the v!deo l!nk.

Hear me, don’t mistake popularity for wisdom.

Trends come and go, but sound knowledge will always outlive them.

Choose your teachers carefully cos the advice you follow today can shape the life you live tomorrow.

Wisdom is paramount.

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I remain your trusted relationship coach and marriage therapist, Mr. Sorbe - The Wisdom Bank.

For pr!vate counseling and consultations, feel free to reach out to me on Messenger.

07/23/2026

Many relationships don’t fail cos two people didn’t love each other. They fail cos they assumed instead of asking. Love can make you overlook what wisdom would have investigated.

07/22/2026

Many people don’t marry the wrong person cos the signs were hidden. They marry the wrong person cos they kept explaining away the signs they saw.

07/22/2026

One of the most expensive mistakes people make is convincing themselves that marriage will fix what dating has already revealed.

07/22/2026

Before marriage, don’t just talk about your favorite food, movies or where you’ll spend your honeymoon. Talk about the things that will determine whether your marriage survives.

07/21/2026

Before You Accept to Marry Him, Ask Him These Questions

𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟏: 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐃𝐨 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐏𝐥𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐎𝐮𝐫 𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲?

One of the greatest misconceptions about provision is that it is only about money.

It isn’t ya dear.

Ask him, “How do you plan to provide for our family?”

Notice that the question is not, “How much money do you have?”

A man may not have much today, but he should have a vision for tomorrow.

Provision begins with responsibility, not riches.

Listen carefully to his answer.

Does he have a plan?

Is he developing himself?

Is he learning new skills, building a bu$iness, growing in his career or creating opportunities for the future?

Or is he simply hoping that somehow everything will work itself out?

Hope is not a financial strategy.

A responsible man doesn’t wait for life to happen to him. He prepares for it.

At the same time, don’t measure his readiness by the size of his bank account alone.

Many wealthy men are p0or providers cos they neglect their families emotionally, sp!ritually and physically. Read that again

A true provider doesn’t only put food on the table.

He creates security.

He makes his family feel protected.

He plans ahead.

He s△crifices when necessary.

He carries responsibility with dignity instead of running from it.

Remember, provision is not about promising a luxurious life.

It’s about demonstrating the willingness and ability to faithfully care for the family God entrusts to you.

Don’t marry a man’s promises.

Marry his work ethic, his vision and his sense of responsibility.

A man with a clear plan and a disciplined mind is often better prepared for marriage than a man with money but no direction.

Wisdom is paramount.

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I remain your trusted relationship coach and marriage therapist, Mr. Sorbe - The Wisdom Bank.

For pr!vate counseling and consultations, feel free to reach out to me on Messenger.

07/18/2026

Yesterday I told my wife, “I’m in love with you.” Most people think they know what I meant… they don’t.

Yesterday on my way back from work, I texted my wife Naomi Sorbe, telling her I was heading home.

Then I told her, “I’m in love with you.” I’m sure some of you saw the screenshot of the chat on her page.

Now, I know a lot of you think you understand that statement, but trust me… you don’t.

If you’ve ever been in a long-distance relationship, you will understand that being in love with someone you can’t see with your n△ked eyes, touch or hold is not the usual kinda love.

Let me explain…

A person is made up of the body and the soul.

The body is what we see with our n△ked eyes… what we can touch and hold.

But the soul is the invisible part. We can’t see it, touch it or hold it, but we can feel it.

The soul is the mind, the emotions and the will. It is also a person’s character.

Someone’s body can be beautiful but their soul is not.

You can love someone’s body but not love their soul(character).

Studies have shown that many couples often say, “I love you,” to each other after int!macy and that's cos int!macy has a way of deepening emotional connection and increasing feelings of affection in that moment.

Now, remove the hugs, the kis5es and the int!macy… would they still be in love? That's the question.

For a couple who are apart, when we say, “I love you,” it’s different. It is a higher level of affection.

It is affection for the soul and not just the body.

When I told my wife, “I’m in love with you,” it went beyond love for her body. It was love for her soul.

I’m in love with her body, her mind, her emotions and her will. I’m in love with her body and her character.

Though we are apart, our characters still have a way of leaving butterflies in our bellies.

Trust me, being able to have the feeling of love even when apart takes a lot.

Don’t just marry someone whose body attracts you. Marry someone whose soul captivates you.

Physical attraction may bring two people together, but it is love for each other’s character that keeps them together… for life.

Wisdom is paramount.

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I remain your trusted relationship coach and marriage therapist, Mr. Sorbe - The Wisdom Bank.

For pr!vate counseling and consultations, feel free to reach out to me on Messenger.

07/18/2026

Before You Accept to Marry Him, Ask Him These Questions

𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟎: 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐧 𝐃𝐞𝐛𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐧𝐲 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐎𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐈 𝐒𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐊𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭?

Many people spend months planning a wedding but only a few minutes discussing the financial realities they will inherit after saying, “I do.”

Before getting marriedto him, ask him, “Are you in debt or carrying any financial obligations I should know about?”

This is not a sign that you love money.

It’s a sign that you value honesty.

Marriage joins two lives, and that includes financial responsibilities.

He may be supporting his parents, paying school fees for younger siblings, repaying a bu$iness loan, or carrying other legitimate obligations.

None of these automatically makes him a bad husband.

The problem is not the obligation.

The problem is hiding it.

Secrets have destr0yed more marriages than debt ever has.

You deserve to know what financial commitments already exist so that you can prepare for the future together.

Also, pay attention to his attitude.

Is he transparent or does he become defensive?

Does he take responsibility for his financial decisions or does he blame everyone else for his situation?

A trustworthy man understands that honesty builds confidence.

He won’t wait until after the wedding for you to discover that half of his income has already been committed elsewhere.

Marriage is not the place for financial surprises.

Trust grows where there is openness.

Don’t ask only what he owns…. ask what he owes. Assets may improve your lifestyle, but hidden liabilities can quietly destr0y your peace.

Transparency before marriage is far better than shocking discoveries after the wedding.

Wisdom is paramount.

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I remain your trusted relationship coach and marriage therapist, Mr. Sorbe - The Wisdom Bank.

For pr!vate counseling and consultations, feel free to reach out to me on Messenger.

07/17/2026

Before You Accept to Marry Him, Ask Him These Questions

𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟗: 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐖𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬?

Love may bring two people together, but money has the power to pull them apart if it’s not handled wisely.

Ask him, “How will we make financial decisions in our marriage?”

This conversation is not about finding out who will earn more.

It’s about discovering how the two of you will manage what God entrusts to you.

Will you create a budget together?

Will major purchases be discussed before they’re made?

How will you handle savings, inve5tments, emergencies and giving?

Will one person control all the money, or will there be transparency and accountability?

Money is rarely just about money.

It often reveals deeper issues such as trust, discipline, priorities, generosity and self control.

Pay attention to his financial habits.

Does he live beyond his means?

Is he constantly borrowing money for unnecessary things?

Does he save consistently, or does he spend everything he earns?

Does he make impulsive financial decisions without thinking about tomorrow?

A man doesn’t have to be wealthy to be financially responsible.

Some people earn little and manage it wisely.

Others earn a lot and still live in a financial mess.

Marriage doesn’t require perfection.

But it does require honesty, planning and teamwork.

Financial peace is built through communication, not assumptions.

Don’t ask only how much money he makes. Ask how he manages the money he has. A wise steward with little is better prepared for marriage than a careless spender with plenty.

Wisdom is paramount.

If this teaching added value to your life and you’d love to keep learning with me, kindly follow this page.

If you believe someone else needs to read this, don’t keep it to yourself. Share this post. You never know whose life it may change.

I remain your trusted relationship coach and marriage therapist, Mr. Sorbe - The Wisdom Bank.

For pr!vate counseling and consultations, feel free to reach out to me on Messenger.

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